I am actually trans as well but that being said, it’s actually roughly between .05 to 1.7% of the population that is intersex/has intersex traits.
https://www.unfe.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/05/UNFE-Intersex.pdf
As for the rest, my gender still isn’t defined by my sex and there’s plenty of research (that I literally just posted,) that agrees with me. One gender is far more than just a psychological phenomenon or a matter of “feelings.” Your information is just grossly outdated.
What's gross is your entitlement and arrogance.
The issue with research is you can quite literally find research in support of any hypothesis and turn around and find an almost equal amount disputing the same.
You are the prime living example of the complication here - you're biologically XX, you claim to have genitals for both and even internal parts for both. You're intersex which means you are a tiny fraction of the world's population with this condition.
Arguably you're both male and female.
Then you say you're trans which begs the question, for someone with XX chromosome, who presents both genitals and internal organs, how can someone possibly, in their right mind, in this or any other universe, ever, in this history of existence and beyond EVER, correctly wager a guess as to what your pronoun is?
If there is a law which criminalizes this person for misgendering you, do you realise how it affects their life? their record and their employability for the future? So just because you are such a unique case they should suffer for the rest of their lives? I am saying this to stay on topic.
Do you also not see the safest way for anyone to exist around you in this regard is to just avoid you altogether, because if they engage you, they will forever be on eggshells and risk their very livelihood? Does that not make you the literal ticking bomb to be near? Is that not toxic? I am not being facetious, think about it.
Who even gave you the right to be so entitled that you get to decide someone's life and fate in this manner?
By calling unsuspecting people trans-phobic you are not only hurting them but creating a problem for yourself here. If you follow European history it is exactly situations such as this which led to movements in germany which I will not go into. Its because people had enough of these shenanigans and it only ended up hurting a lot of innocents.
I mean it in the most sincere way - calm down, you're clearly a very special person. Appreciate who you are and if people don't understand it then let them be, don't call them phobes, they may not know what they are doing. Respect is earned and never demanded. Same for acceptance.