Real sex vs porn?

[Scott-105]

People who say "sex isn't a big deal" or "sex is overrrated" are likely to be virgin ;o;

I'm not and I think it's overrated. Don't get me wrong, I love sex but it's not as good as it's hyped up to be imo.

@OP like everyone else said, porn is way exaggerated. I don't watch it because personally it doesn't help at all lol.

 

[BlueFox gui]

@OP like everyone else said, porn is way exaggerated. I don't watch it because personally it doesn't help at all lol.

true, who the fuck would moan like that? XD

 

[Jacklack3]

Only the purest of questions are asked here on the temp.

 

[spotanjo3]

To be honest with you, sex really isn't that special. But I guess I am bias because I enjoy casual sex and don't see it as that big a deal.

That's your decision and that is your body.

To me.. Sex and love at the same time is the best ever in my life. Sex is a very special through love and cherish. I experienced it and always will experience it in the future. Without love.. what is sex ? No fun. You wont be happy.

I understand your point.

Some people are frustration about not finding the right person or some people JUST like sex just for pleasure (feeling good) and for their satisfied desire.

So I can't judge them. As long as they must be aware to protect themselves from any diseases, thats all.

 

[yusuo]

People who say "sex isn't a big deal" or "sex is overrrated" are likely to be virgin ;o;

Or just terrible at it, personally I quite enjoy it

 

[Pacheko17]

I'm not and I think it's overrated. Don't get me wrong, I love sex but it's not as good as it's hyped up to be imo.

@OP like everyone else said, porn is way exaggerated. I don't watch it because personally it doesn't help at all lol.

I like it, but there are way better things to do and it can get messy.

 

[Scott-105]

true, who the fuck would moan like that? XD

Oh believe me some girls do maybe not as loud as in porn but it happens sometimes.

 

[BlueFox gui]

Oh believe me some girls do maybe not as loud as in porn but it happens sometimes.

hahahahahahaha XD
porn is just fun, it makes me laugh more than make me horny lol
its just funny how everything is fake and those little stories they use to have an excuse to start having sex
"oh hey were watching the same tv show in the same living room..... LETZ FUK!!"

 

[Scott-105]

hahahahahahaha XD
porn is just fun, it makes me laugh more than make me horny lol
its just funny how everything is fake and those little stories they use to have an excuse to start having sex
"oh hey were watching the same tv show in the same living room..... LETZ FUK!!"

It is a little bit rediculous in porn. Literally anything and everything turns into sex. Can be quite amusing at times. Even more comical, is that some hentais have good stories.

 

[Roamin64]

Every so often I hear that porn is not an accurate depiction of sex and I believe this is true. But virgin boys like myself who don't even know what boobs feel like don't know much about real sex. There are some pretty obvious differences, a girl will never tip the pizza delivery man with sex. But apart from that, what's the difference between real sex and porn?

Please respond seriously or not at all.

The real answer to your question is this: the difference is huge. In real life, the vast majority of women (I'll only speak about women because I'm heterosexual and I've never been attracted by a man) do not want sex the way you see it in porn. They want you to take your time, cuddle them, be nice, generous, thoughtful , careful, to go slowly to turn them on. They want you to play in their hair, kiss their neck, be soft. Not to go straight for the jackpot and put your hands down their pants. And when it comes time for intercourse, they also want you to be smooth, to ease into it. To look at them in the eyes and kiss them while you're doing the missionary (you on top, lying down in bed). That's how most women want their first experiences and their relationships build on. But not everyone is like that. You'll find as you grow older and have more experience, you define yourself better and know what you like, how you like it , and who can be compatible with you in your needs and envies. Sex is very different for everyone, there are so many variants of porn that it certainly cannot be used as a reference for how sex should be in your life. My sex life does resemble some porn, because I really enjoy sex so I find partners who enjoy just as much as I do or else it doesn't fit well. Sadly, you cannot completely tell how compatible you can be with someone sexually until you actually have sex with that person, and then feelings can start getting involved and complicating things, but hey, that's life. The best advice I can give you is use porn to explore and learn what you enjoy and what doesn't interest you at all to better define yourself, ALWAYS respect your partner, surely you wouldn't want someone to force you to do something you wouldn't want, that also means taking this slow at first not to rush anyone, and communicate! It might make you shy to tell your partner how you like things done, what you would like to try, but it is definitely the best thing to do as your partner is probably just as shy to tell you what she wants or likes, until you've figured some of those likes for yourself . If you don't communicate, and your partner doesn't either, then you'll both miss out and your relationship won't evolve and flourish as much as it could.

Sex is only as important as it is to you. Some people can't live without it (like me), and for others it has no appeal at all.

Have fun and wear condoms people! Safe sex!

 

[Jacklack3]

The real answer to your question is this: the difference is huge. In real life, the vast majority of women (I'll only speak about women because I'm heterosexual and I've never been attracted by a man) do not want sex the way you see it in porn. They want you to take your time, cuddle them, be nice, generous, thoughtful , careful, to go slowly to turn them on. They want you to play in their hair, kiss their neck, be soft. Not to go straight for the jackpot and put your hands down their pants. And when it comes time for intercourse, they also want you to be smooth, to ease into it. To look at them in the eyes and kiss them while you're doing the missionary (you on top, lying down in bed). That's how most women want their first experiences and their relationships build on. But not everyone is like that. You'll find as you grow older and have more experience, you define yourself better and know what you like, how you like it , and who can be compatible with you in your needs and envies. Sex is very different for everyone, there are so many variants of porn that it certainly cannot be used as a reference for how sex should be in your life. My sex life does resemble some porn, because I really enjoy sex so I find partners who enjoy just as much as I do or else it doesn't fit well. Sadly, you cannot completely tell how compatible you can be with someone sexually until you actually have sex with that person, and then feelings can start getting involved and complicating things, but hey, that's life. The best advice I can give you is use porn to explore and learn what you enjoy and what doesn't interest you at all to better define yourself, ALWAYS respect your partner, surely you wouldn't want someone to force you to do something you wouldn't want, that also means taking this slow at first not to rush anyone, and communicate! It might make you shy to tell your partner how you like things done, what you would like to try, but it is definitely the best thing to do as your partner is probably just as shy to tell you what she wants or likes, until you've figured some of those likes for yourself . If you don't communicate, and your partner doesn't either, then you'll both miss out and your relationship won't evolve and flourish as much as it could.

Sex is only as important as it is to you. Some people can't live without it (like me), and for others it has no appeal at all.

Have fun and wear condoms people! Safe sex!

why the fuck am i reading this im only 13

 

[Deleted User]

why the fuck am i reading this im only 13

I can't help but pointing out your current location on your profile.

 

[H1B1Esquire]

I'll lay it out for you:
Porn-people who usually get paid for doing things that most people don't do. Sometimes, sex hurts, but when you're getting paid, the director doesn't really care. The actors and actresses are being coached, take supplements, abide by certain laws, and they have a team to give lube, "fluff", correct angles, wipe things away, etc,. There are lots of different porn for lots of different people, but generally, you have to be a certain kind of person to do these things. When you're old enough, watch interviews of porn stars.

Regular people sex: Everyone is different and it's like rolling dice trying to get a specific number consistently. Some people are lucky and some people are losers. That's life. You can have mind-blowing sex with one person and wish you had sex with a jar of warm peanut butter instead of another person. It's possible to have the mind of a director and the body of a beast or have the mind of a nervous, inexperienced prude with the body of a plank.

Personally for me, sex is something of a "I know what I want, how to get it, and I know what you want before you know you want it." I spent a lot of time practicing certain things because I used to know a lot of women, so my experiences are on a different level than most people--before I was 20, I did a lot more than most people in their 40's, but I also had a ridiculous life and unique situations.

For you, I'd just say, experiment, but not at someone else's expense. If you both want to do things, cool, but don't make having sex your number one goal when you meet someone.

 

[Jacklack3]

I can't help but pointing out your current location on your profile.

im immature, also unless it's just me but i wanted to make it look like a different thing

like you see how it's one a different line?

 

[Haymose]

One thing I will say is that after sex you start to realize when a girl in porn is in pain and is trying to hide it.

 

[SnakeOil992]

Sex is overrated and this question does not belong here.

 

[VinsCool]

Porn is acting, mechanical thrust, and exagerated, only for the pleasure of yourself doing a handjob for 2 minutes. Money is the only reason why actors are willing to get into filmed prostitustion.
Real sex is also overrated. When you find yourself a partner, and get into the act mutually, it's fun for a few minutes, then you're forced to wipe the mess you caused, and most likely going to get into an argument you can't win, "because I made you use my cunt, you must obey to my ruling. Now do I what I tell ye or you could say bye bye to sex."
Basically, either is overrated, and unless you want to extract a child 9 months later, you don't benefit from real sex. Some minutes of playing in bed, that's the most you get. Surely better than wanking to tentacles hentai, I guess.

 

[BlueFox gui]

Surely better than wanking to tentacles hentai, I guess.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA
HOLYCRAP HAHAHAHAHAH
XD

 

[Clydefrosch]

real sex feels better, there's also less stupid moaning, exposition or weirdly twisting your body so tits, ass and pussy face the same direction at all time.

porn usually looks better though

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Porn is acting, mechanical thrust, and exagerated, only for the pleasure of yourself doing a handjob for 2 minutes. Money is the only reason why actors are willing to get into filmed prostitustion.
Real sex is also overrated. When you find yourself a partner, and get into the act mutually, it's fun for a few minutes, then you're forced to wipe the mess you caused, and most likely going to get into an argument you can't win, "because I made you use my cunt, you must obey to my ruling. Now do I what I tell ye or you could say bye bye to sex."
Basically, either is overrated, and unless you want to extract a child 9 months later, you don't benefit from real sex. Some minutes of playing in bed, that's the most you get. Surely better than wanking to tentacles hentai, I guess.

lol, with that attitude, i wonder if you ever got to that post-sex point so far

 

[pustal]

Every so often I hear that porn is not an accurate depiction of sex and I believe this is true. But virgin boys like myself who don't even know what boobs feel like don't know much about real sex. There are some pretty obvious differences, a girl will never tip the pizza delivery man with sex. But apart from that, what's the difference between real sex and porn?

Please respond seriously or not at all.

Professional porn is produced to entertain and excite the watcher, and is mostly concerned in its point of view. Most porn is produced for straight males, and focus on what they think its hot and what gived them pleasure, so women are mostly actresses on it, they exagerate sounds and movement and pleasure. For instance, many women will say they prefer or require clitorial stimulation to reach climax, while most porn focuses on penetration alone, with usually space given to the camera angle that cuts out clitorial contact.

Fetishes are also exagerated, for example many actresses urinate to pretend exagerated squirts.

Then there is that there is a lot of mutual discovery when you get a new partner. You have to understand what they like and what it makes it pleasurable for them, and vice-versa. In porn is just assumed.

The thing is most professional porn is produced for virgins. If you want to see more realistic stuff just look for amateur porn, it's considerably more realistic.

Porn is often filmed. Your sex isn't. That is probably the biggest difference.

All porn is filmed, if it is not filmed, it isn't porn. It's simply sex if not paid, or prostitution if paid.

Oh boi... Now we are transforming into PornTemp? This isn't going to end well

It's a legit topic as anything else. Why should it be taboo?

 

[pustal]

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