You must live a very privileged life to only care about marriage. There are people currently unable to make ends meet. They are having a hard time buying gas and food and here you are arguing about marriage.Do you think those states should be allowed to prevent people from getting married? That is, after all, government intervention.
If anybody wants to see why we are so divided, here is a prime example. People are suffering from inflation and Laina here is arguing about culture war crap.