been there before, sad thing is when you love someone so much you will want to go to any lenghts for them. i did and it was a mistake because the girl broke up eventually because 'i was not good enough' i was not 'mature enough' i did not 'give her the amount of attention' she needed/asked for. i will try to do the apply to this "It's at that point where ties are cut" to cut them ties when something like that happened again. well , guess alot of us folks have been through different kinds of shet, just gotta take this XP with us for the 'next' time. life goes on.