In the first 7 years of your life, you are programmed in a way that will affect you for the future. Meaning during the time when your 7 or below your subconscious is programmed and keeps you that way for your life. The failure of being able to change is not true, it may seem hard but it really isn't that difficult. Our subconscious is basically like another mind that we cannot hear or "control", more on control later. If you hate the world and want to be a change, your conscious which you control wants you to be changed but for some reason you can't, however, it's because the subconscious understands English and is basically like "Inside Out", the subconscious control your behavior, DNA, etc. However, what if we could control our subconscious, we technically can, but we don't because everyone ignores it. I'm not here to tell you how, just Google "subconscious reprogramming". Then you could control your subconscious, genes, behavior, productivity, and more. You could ignore this but if you didn't, you would be in full control of your life