I just edited my post to compliment my statement. How does that sound?
As I said before, I don't put much *stock* in the bible, as a usual Catholic does. If God really wanted us to have holy books, it would rain bibles every now and then.
The bible is highly outdated for today's standards, but the fact is, it states homosexuality being a sin, and some Catholics believe in that. A part of being tolerant is respecting your right to be gay and their right to regard you a sinner. This doesn't mean that either party throws spears at eachother, how is this an alien concept to you?