So, what do you do? Live with regret for the rest of your life? That wouldn't make life very comfortable. That's why there's grace and forgiveness.
That's one way to look at it. Look, I'm opening up a conversation so we can discuss this issue more thoroughly. I'll automatically invite you so you can participate. If you feel afraid to go in there alone, suggest someone else I can invite there so you can feel more comfortable about it.