see i think its something only real family should ever be allowed to do (i assume by the way you phrased it she isn't your mother), and as in my post earlier only for real life or death situations, but i feel like as in your case if you receive a smack for something and you don't feel like it was justified your never going to get past it, personally i know my dad loved me and he would never do it just a some way to get me to shut up while he watched TV or something, might a stern word have worked......possibly, but if i answer honestly....probably not, and it could have been me hit by the car if i continued playing the game