Except those questions and comments are transphobic especially coming out of gaming forum randos. The only people who should be commenting on things like that are the licensed professionals that help trans folks affirm who they are. The only way you could even contemplate those “questions” is because you don’t understand what tf you’re talking about and are more interested in othering an entire class of human being. There is no reason for anybody to be discussing any of that, let alone in a gaming forum. Nobody is telling you to sleep with anyone so bringing up that point IS transphobia as is the original point. Stop worrying about the genitals of strangers and children. Let people live their life instead of repeating the “Jewish Question.” This is all just an attempt to other a group of people to then justify Inhumane treatment.
And it’s frankly alarming and disappointing that a literal mod doesn’t see how questioning the basic human rights of an entire class of people would make those people feel attacked and unsafe then use literal transphobic commentary to justify it.
This is also a daily occurrence whether you choose to see it or not. You have people literally saying shit like “gay people groom children to be gay” and “trans people shouldn’t be allowed to [insert basic right here].” Why the FUCK would any marginalized person stay here another day if literally every day their humanity is questioned? That’s not politic, that’s 4chan
That is a fairly high bar, one generally not given elsewhere in anything. So only presumably relevant lawyers and given specialist doctors then (which have their own massive internal debates all the time too), which in turn is essentially banning its discussion in its entirety (give or take said member being confirmed as capable I guess which is presumably not a service likely to be offered).
So if I can go out and find many talking heads, granted they are not the lawyers and doctors, claiming that not sleeping with trans people (be it generally or the whole superstraight thing, which would be mathematically allowed if there is indeed a difference between bisexual and pansexual as some claim) on the basis of that then that are bad people (though I might go the other way and say OK, but it is an acceptable flavour of it then). I would agree to a statement of it being a ridiculous standard, and ignore anybody that makes it a stupid moron, but it is one that has been floated and not in the "hurr durr dude in a dress next to my daughter in a toilet" sense.
Identity documents is presently happening in part of the UK. They want to change it from "active effort spending time doing + sign off from medics" to not so very far from essentially "rock up and go for it", which is a thing in other places (I believe Canada had this, much to the amusement of some). From where I sit that either means the law in a modern western state is hopelessly bigoted or the proffered one is going against medicine/science (something seemingly a concern in an earlier post).
Age of treatment is also heavily debated in courts and medicine, with much left to understand (guess we have to also add continuing professional development checks* to the be ye medic or lawyer thing) with massively varying approaches between countries as well.
*which can vary from region to region and do change with time if we look at the DSM and the other takes on mental health conditions.
The sports question is a perfectly valid one from where I sit. I would generally lean into "sports is a genetic freak show" aspect myself which renders it something of a moot point but there are other paths that can be contemplated, to say nothing of variations between different sports governing setups (which by simple logic means one or more is wrong). Though it does not hurt that I find sports boring as a concept and women's sports even more boring than that (I want to watch the genetic freaks do amazing physical feats and it is vanishingly rare that anbody lacking a y chromosome can compete at human limits for strength, speed, endurance, reaction time or all at once, slim possible exception if that "skill" cap means those sports rendered pointless are not rendered pointless -- baseball is boring mostly because human reflexes are not enough to reliably hit a modern fast pitch).
Technically I am not a mod. Just someone that can review things under the official banner and be trusted to put stuff on the portal, though I suppose that makes me a representative of the site in some capacity. I would equally not see myself as questioning anything on the rights front (the part in quotes in the earlier post is my general position on things -- anything else is poor economic policy as trying to find good people is hard enough and on an individual basis how much melanin you have, what wobbly bits you have, what wobbly bits you like to fumble or if you reckon you were born with the wrong wobbly bits matters little either in the debates on the best version of tetris or your capability to figure out what to solder where to fix/mod this thing). As far as staying here the same reason others would if there is drivel on the forums in any other given topic -- it is nice when you are in an echo chamber of smart people that would never hurt the feelings of even a fly but such things are a fantasy really. If the hypothetical person there is really so fragile then maybe this general internet lark is not for them, can only hope they grow some thicker skin one day. I would also return to the old standard of "sunlight, wonderful disinfectant" and ponder that some in this.