So... A while back i made this post https://gbatemp.net/threads/toxic-friendships.662562/ i ended up ghosting her for the next few days... the story gets crazy from here.
i was living my great life until the boyfriend came up to me and told me to check my GD messages else im going to get into trouble... I went to check and there were two new messages of that girl, she gave me 24 hours to decide if I wanted her back, and 12 hours of that were gone.
I tried asking her boyfriend about this and he told me "idk go fix it on your own its really none of my business", the other friends of mine also ignored me (I still don't have that great friends thanks to the fact I had to leave everything behind lmao)
I had a hard time deciding, so I went for my safest bet. Saying I wanted her back, I would decide later and leave her but I didn't told her that lmao. Immediately after saying yes I went to create a plan to get rid of this girl and get rid of her boyfriend forever, but I also wanted to enjoy being with her since she was pretty harmless.
So... How was it? At first I was like "ok whatever" but then I kinda fell in love with her again, she was fun to talk to. So I adapted my plan to only get rid of her boyfriend and not her, I talked this with the girl and she told me it was OK. I thought I was going to keep this friendship.
After a few weeks... She didn't reply my messages for 5 days again. I thought she was busy, i waited for a while. After a while she indeed came back and apologized for being gone for so long, we had one last conversation, it was fun. She told me she had to go. She came back 15 minutes later to tell me that she was going to dump me. I tried to keep myself calm, I asked her why and she answered "I cannot have a friend that loves me when I have a boyfriend", I told her that it's OK and told her with enjoy her time with her boyfriend.
After a while, I thought something didn't add up here, she always told me that it was fine that I loved her as long as I respected their her relationship (which I always did), the way how she talked seemed like if she was actually crying.
I went to check my GD messages and her boyfriend left me a message... "She had to leave you, because you hurt me, if someone hurts my girlfriend that guy will have to pay, but since she is forgiving..." next day of school I went to ask him and he was just silent. He did all of this.
I was really mad but I had no other choice than to follow the plan I made just in case, I literally planned all possibilities out. After a while I got rid of the guy and the girl, a lot of the school fights were gone too. I decided to get another girl, I went with a old friend of mine and uh... it didn't went well. I'm going to talk about this later...
This concludes the series of "Toxic Friendships" by aerglass... I'm still kinda hurt about what the guy did to me, he practically ruined my life multiple times, I left him and he just went in all into ruining me, luckily he doesn't deal with me anymore and I don't really have to worry. I'm kinda stupidly smart for planning out every single small detail but it ended up being useful lmao.
i was living my great life until the boyfriend came up to me and told me to check my GD messages else im going to get into trouble... I went to check and there were two new messages of that girl, she gave me 24 hours to decide if I wanted her back, and 12 hours of that were gone.
I tried asking her boyfriend about this and he told me "idk go fix it on your own its really none of my business", the other friends of mine also ignored me (I still don't have that great friends thanks to the fact I had to leave everything behind lmao)
I had a hard time deciding, so I went for my safest bet. Saying I wanted her back, I would decide later and leave her but I didn't told her that lmao. Immediately after saying yes I went to create a plan to get rid of this girl and get rid of her boyfriend forever, but I also wanted to enjoy being with her since she was pretty harmless.
So... How was it? At first I was like "ok whatever" but then I kinda fell in love with her again, she was fun to talk to. So I adapted my plan to only get rid of her boyfriend and not her, I talked this with the girl and she told me it was OK. I thought I was going to keep this friendship.
After a few weeks... She didn't reply my messages for 5 days again. I thought she was busy, i waited for a while. After a while she indeed came back and apologized for being gone for so long, we had one last conversation, it was fun. She told me she had to go. She came back 15 minutes later to tell me that she was going to dump me. I tried to keep myself calm, I asked her why and she answered "I cannot have a friend that loves me when I have a boyfriend", I told her that it's OK and told her with enjoy her time with her boyfriend.
After a while, I thought something didn't add up here, she always told me that it was fine that I loved her as long as I respected their her relationship (which I always did), the way how she talked seemed like if she was actually crying.
I went to check my GD messages and her boyfriend left me a message... "She had to leave you, because you hurt me, if someone hurts my girlfriend that guy will have to pay, but since she is forgiving..." next day of school I went to ask him and he was just silent. He did all of this.
I was really mad but I had no other choice than to follow the plan I made just in case, I literally planned all possibilities out. After a while I got rid of the guy and the girl, a lot of the school fights were gone too. I decided to get another girl, I went with a old friend of mine and uh... it didn't went well. I'm going to talk about this later...
This concludes the series of "Toxic Friendships" by aerglass... I'm still kinda hurt about what the guy did to me, he practically ruined my life multiple times, I left him and he just went in all into ruining me, luckily he doesn't deal with me anymore and I don't really have to worry. I'm kinda stupidly smart for planning out every single small detail but it ended up being useful lmao.