Got a crush on a nurse and it's kind of eating me up inside

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That. or do it the ol' fashioned way

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If you know her name send her flowers or a gift basket with your name and number on them. If you do send a basket make sure it has nice pens in it (Sharpie .5mm gel pens, a target gift card or starbucks gift card, and a nice smelling candle. I'm married to a nurse so i know what they want, and they all want these.
 
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to quote impeeza, one will regret thing he did not do more rather than thing he did. so as suggested above, casually ask her if she wants to hang out for coffee or something, if she agrees, great, if not that will be that. at least asking yourself "what if" questions won't keep you awake at night. Let us know how it goes, and good luck
 
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to quote impeeza, one will regret thing he did not do more rather than thing he did. so as suggested above, casually ask her if she wants to hang out for coffee or something, if she agrees, great, if not that will be that. at least asking yourself "what if" questions won't keep you awake at night. Let us know how it goes, and good luck
Yeah, man, I'll buy two chocolate boxes as a thank you to give her and another nurse so it's not too much on the nose.

Even if it's nothing I'd prefer just to get that cleared up. Opposites do attract, I'm not talking about myself specifically, but it does happen.
 
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Well, went there today left the box of chocolates for the other nurse, but the one I wanted to actually see I was told she moved to another general practice.

No, I wasn't told which, but it's public info on Google so I'll send the thank you letter and gift to that address. All it says is how kind she was and uplifting while in the rear of the package it has my address and phone number from its sender.

My fault for taking too long. That's it, not doing anything else. Gonna miss her.
 

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Well, went there today left the box of chocolates for the other nurse, but the one I wanted to actually see I was told she moved to another general practice.

No, I wasn't told which, but it's public info on Google so I'll send the thank you letter and gift to that address. All it says is how kind she was and uplifting while in the rear of the package it has my address and phone number from its sender.

My fault for taking too long. That's it, not doing anything else. Gonna miss her.
That's really sweet and quite honestly, very relatable.

She was doing her job, and I presume the situation wouldn't have changed if you did this before, because again, she is doing her job.

Just remember that nothing you did, said, or didnt do or said had anything to do with fate.

But who knows? Maybe that detail will change things up a bit?
Wish you good luck if that's the case.

Remember not to turn this situation into an online stalking situation.
 
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Go for it. Try it. Maybe she was being polite, maybe she would actually accept go out with you, maybe she would tell you just "thank you". But don't stay with the doubt.

Try it, keep being polite (because sometimes, even if a girl is kinda interested, people in general aren't used to being direct with them) and brace for the result. There is nothing worse for the mind that an eternal "what if?"....
 

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Highly likely she is Married anyway, or with someone. Good amount of them try to make sure to keep Patients calm, relaxed, keep your Mind focused on other things. Some, it seems like they are bored with their Job, and dont care anymore. But thankfully there are Nurses and Doctors like the one you met with, who take their Job seriously.
 

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The greatest Canadian Wayne Gretzky once said "you miss 100 of the shots you don't take".

She was probably being nice and you misread the signal tbh. :creep:
 

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Sometimes people can be nice, caring, lovely, even flirty, or considerate, and that doesn't means that they necessarily have a romantic interest on you. Sometimes it's just playing with the ambiguity and having a kick out of it. Sometimes it's just feeling that they're talking with a real person, rather than with another random individual with seemingly no soul. There are lots of nuances in life, and that's the most probable thing.

In my opinion, you didn't missed on much. At most, you could've had a dumb kick out of it too if you had read the room correctly, or connected with another person in a temporary but interesting way. Nothing to get too sentimental about at the end of the day :P
 
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No don't do that you'll creep her out.
Most nurses laugh it off when patients flirt with them, they can actually loose their RN if they get involved with a patient or they have to transfer hospital and change your care all together. I'm sure Marc is trolling an actual nurse wouldn't dream to loose their job over someone that's a temporary stay.
 
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