I need some help, some support, or something. I'm about to lose it.

[Vengenceonu]

Explain how then. What have I done to affect your life where you feel justified to act like this towards me. Explain yourself or go away.

Chill, he's a troll. He's clearly trying to rile you up because right now you're at your weakest. He hasn't been here even more then a day yet so clearly we know who the real assbag is. For all we know this could be your wife being a bitch. Ignore him.

 

[DeadlyFoez]

I find your tone towards me rather unfair.
meh I think I've earned it

If you know who I am IRL then either call me or show up here and be a fucking man. Quit hiding behind the skirts of the internet because your bullshit is not helping anything.

 

[the-fat-man]

i'm in a position to help so I offered to. you have refused my help so I can only conclude you don't really need the help you've been begging for. So consider my offers rescinded and good luck on future endeavors. and if you think i've been fucking mrs.foez you're beyond help

 

[DeadlyFoez]

i'm in a position to help so I offered to. you have refused my help so I can only conclude you don't really need the help you've been begging for. So consider my offers rescinded and good luck on future endeavors. and if you think i've been fucking mrs.foez you're beyond help

Certainly, I never said you've been fucking Mrs. Foez. I have not begged for help getting my toiletries or my work related stuff. You sound like you have some inside information. Being that you joined only today that points to that you know more than what you are saying.

Explain yourself. If it is alright for you to ask me question then it is safe to assume that I can ask you questions also.

Also, please explain how I have refused your help. I have refused to tolerate your insults, but I never once said that I don't want help.

 

[the-fat-man]

"If you want to keep going and have your actions throw my wife under the bus then please continue"
"Certainly, I never said you've been fucking Mrs. Foez"
please explain what you meant by this?

 

[DarkShinigami]

"If you want to keep going and have your actions throw my wife under the bus then please continue"
"Certainly, I never said you've been fucking Mrs. Foez"
please explain what you meant by this?

okay tell me im not the only one with inelegance? he clearly means if you keep it up hes gonna lose it and shove said wife under bus.

 

[ComeTurismO]

..Uh what the heck, is wrong with the-fat-man?
He/she is truly a fatman and wants to insult and put people down since he is fat. If he keeps it up, ignore him and report him, which I also did. I suspect he is some evil person involved in your situation IRL.

 

[DeadlyFoez]

Ok. I found out who the-fat-man is. It is one of my old buddies that I have not talked to in years. I talked with him on the phone briefly. He was just trying to fuck with me in the old friend way of calling me an assbag.

 

[Sicklyboy]

Ok. I found out who the-fat-man is. It is one of my old buddies that I have not talked to in years. I talked with him on the phone briefly. He was just trying to fuck with me in the old friend way of calling me an assbag.

...welp

That was quite the twist. I was almost expecting it to be Mrs. Foez, to be honest with you.

 

[DeadlyFoez]

...welp

That was quite the twist. I was almost expecting it to be Mrs. Foez, to be honest with you.

Me too, or one of her boyfriends. Or the person she is fuckign now. I don't understand why she won't allow me into the apartment, even with a police escort, at this point. She won't allow me to get my stuff. I have to go through court to get my stuff now. And she still has not filed for divorce.

I'm about to not give up and let her suffer the consequences of explaining to my children how she let her drug and alcohol addiction cause the death of their father. I seriously just want to die. Too bad I have no way of making it happen otherwise I would. I hate myself and I hate my life.

I wish that I would just die and not have to suffer anymore. This is the most pain I've ever had to deal with.

 

[ikh]

cute kids, one day they will grow up and be able to see you freely if you try hard enough to keep in touch with them. also you can't make someone have feelings for you, ether they do or they don't, just remember there's someone for everyone and its extremely rare for people to get it right the first time. As for your stuff, if it is valuable or expensive get it back, if it can easily and cheaply be replaced then do so and cut all ties with her that don't regard your kids. MOST IMPORTANT THING IS "I'm about to not give up and let her suffer the consequences of explaining to my children how she let her drug and alcohol addiction cause the death of their father" NEVER EVER EVER USE YOUR CHILDREN AS EMOTIONAL WEAPONS!!!! saying such things to them, especially when their young can cause them serious psychological and emotional harm. The day you became a father is the day your life became second priority to your children. don't let them grow up without a father in their lives.

 

[ComeTurismO]

Exactly. Being fatherless, I can tell you that I wish I had a caring father. You're a caring father, your children need you.

 

[DeadlyFoez]

Exactly. Being fatherless, I can tell you that I wish I had a caring father. You're a caring father, your children need you.

Does no good when I am not allowed to see them. I'm just as worthy as a lifeless rock to them and my family at this point.

 

[Maxternal]

At this point both you AND your wife have made petitions to the court for there to be some visitation arrangements made of some sort. Courts may work slowly but none of the parts involved are against it so there's no reason for them to deny such arrangements being made. You'll be able to see them relatively soon. I'm quite confident of it.

 

[calmwaters]

I don't get it. She was tired of the happiness? She couldn't be. There's something inside her that has to be rekindled. If you get to see her, then bring as many things as you can to remind her of how happy you both were. At least that's what I would do. And it's nice to see your signature's been changed.

 

[DeadlyFoez]

GREAT GREAT NEWS!!!​

I met an absolutely wonderful woman this past week. She is absolutely everything that I have been needing. We are official now. What this means is that I have found it in myself to move on and to stop allowing myself to be hurt and instead be with someone who will appreciate me. This girl has her head on straight, has 2 children that I have yet to meet, has a great career, and best of all is that she accepts me. She is not an alcoholic, druggie, or anything that my ex is. This woman is freaking great.​

When I get a picture of us I will post it up.

 

[Foxi4]

You're acting a bit like a pendulum here - first you hate on your wife big time, then you swear you love her to bits and would stand on your head and spin for her, then you hate on her again and now you write about moving on, all within a time span of a few weeks.

I don't want to sound all patronizing and whatnot, but from an outsider's perspective I think matters are going forwards a bit too quick, don't you? You're "putting a new woman into your bed before the bed's even gone cold after the last one" so to speak and I think you should really take a chill pill, enjoy some solitude, give yourself time for some serious thought and then act before you do something you might regret in the long run and hurt two women instead of just the one.

 

[DeadlyFoez]

Foxi4, I understand everything that you are saying. People have been telling me for some time that it is time for me to move on. Many people have said that including my best friends. There were a couple more developments that happened with the ex in the past week that have gotten me to the point that I now see that chasing her is not doing me any good, it is just hurting me more. The stress of this has caused me to lose nearly 40 pounds and I need to find peace and acceptance so I can just move on. I was not looking for a new relationship, but instead just a friendship and this woman came in to my life and she is right for me.

My ex has hurt me too much and does not want me back, and I no longer care. As long as I can be a good father to my children and find happiness in my own life then I should go for it. I certainly am not going to rush it with this woman, but I need to be happy once again otherwise I am unable to function as a productive human being.

I have been put down and crapped on for too many years now and all it did was drag me down and make me feel like less than a person. Going back to my ex would not bring me happiness and I understand it now. I am thinking more clearly than I have in these past 2 months. Now someone has come in to my life that is making me feel good and gives me compliments instead of insults.

Believe me, I am doing the right thing for myself. I will not hurt this woman as long as I stay honest with her.

 

[gamefan5]

Foxi4, I understand everything that you are saying. People have been telling me for some time that it is time for me to move on. Many people have said that including my best friends. There were a couple more developments that happened with the ex in the past week that have gotten me to the point that I now see that chasing her is not doing me any good, it is just hurting me more. The stress of this has caused me to lose nearly 40 pounds and I need to find peace and acceptance so I can just move on. I was not looking for a new relationship, but instead just a friendship and this woman came in to my life and she is right for me.

My ex has hurt me too much and does not want me back, and I no longer care. As long as I can be a good father to my children and find happiness in my own life then I should go for it. I certainly am not going to rush it with this woman, but I need to be happy once again otherwise I am unable to function as a productive human being.

I have been put down and crapped on for too many years now and all it did was drag me down and make me feel like less than a person. Going back to my ex would not bring me happiness and I understand it now. I am thinking more clearly than I have in these past 2 months. Now someone has come in to my life that is making me feel good and gives me compliments instead of insults.

Believe me, I am doing the right thing for myself. I will not hurt this woman as long as I stay honest with her.

Indeed. Hopefully this will turn your life upright again. If your old wife hurt you that much to make yourself suicidal in a brief moment, then it's not worth it. I think at this point, you truly did try everything you could and it simply did not work. So It's time to move on. And it looks like our own your way.

If I may ask though, what about your old kids? Will you forget them? If u had a chance to see them, will you see them again? After all, it's not their fault.

 

[Thanatos Telos]

Great for you, Foez! On the downside, there will be some awkwardness when you introduce your kids to her/her kids, but the end result should be good.