It's about my Sister's Boyfriend.
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My sister got a boyfriend about 4 months ago and at first he seemed like a cool guy. He played video games, knows a bit about computers, and what not.
However, there are a number of things that agitate me.
Turns out he breaks computers frequently, software and hardware wise.
I'm a very different person. I dislike having conversations to people unless I am at a party or something with nothing better to do. When I am home, I do things I want to do. He is always at the house talking to us. I don't like being distracted every 5 minutes for the several hours he is at the house.
He eats all our food. We are moving up to divided rations in our house because he simply eats about 3 times as much as any of my siblings and I. He has no job.
He is a super Christian. If anyone has seen my rants, I dislike people who devote their entire lives to Christianity. He believes that we should all follow a conduct of morality. He goes to church 4 times a week and worse, he brings it back to our house. I don't care about his religion, it's bad enough he has to rub it off on us all day. He keeps trying to persuade us that Obama is a follower of the Anti-Christ, the Earthquakes this year is Jesus coming back, God exists (little does he know that I believe a God exists but has nothing related to Christianity), that the bible is true because his interpretation of the bible is said to be true.
He acts like he can talk and write ancient Greek. He plays a flute.
He is the typical society person, certain things are wrong, certain things are right. It is wrong if you do certain things that are wrong and you must always do things that are right. Sociopaths are always wrong, people with personality disorders are always wrong and bad for a society... these kinds of things.
The worse part is, my sister is becoming like him. She goes to Church just as much, she got baptized, she is starting to pick up on his personality. She spends money she doesn't have to be with him. She starting to believe that certain things are wrong and right and she is just becoming him.
I have been through a number of relationships. I have come to realize that the best relationship I have been is when you are comfortable with yourself and with who you are and comfortable with the person you are with. I swear, she completely changed her personality to match exactly what this guys is. I was having a debate with my brother about being a sociopath (apparently I fit the traits of one as my girlfriend puts it) and how it can be good. My sister walks in with her boyfriend and immediately says "Sociopaths are bad" then quotes something from the bible as her proof.
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Pause. If you don't know who I am, I am a highly dedicated math major and deals with extremes amount of logic. Calling that a proof made me want to shit myself.
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That's just my side of the story. Everyone in this house has always lived up to a certain standard and this guy falls below on almost all of them (cleaning up and such). Everyone in this house has some dislike in him.
My sister is obviously not going to say anything to him and he doesn't listen when we say stuff to him. So what should I do?
We all know their relationship is not going to last, if it does, it won't be a good one. I have been through something similar and it changed me completely.
(Rant Starts Here)
My sister got a boyfriend about 4 months ago and at first he seemed like a cool guy. He played video games, knows a bit about computers, and what not.
However, there are a number of things that agitate me.
Turns out he breaks computers frequently, software and hardware wise.
I'm a very different person. I dislike having conversations to people unless I am at a party or something with nothing better to do. When I am home, I do things I want to do. He is always at the house talking to us. I don't like being distracted every 5 minutes for the several hours he is at the house.
He eats all our food. We are moving up to divided rations in our house because he simply eats about 3 times as much as any of my siblings and I. He has no job.
He is a super Christian. If anyone has seen my rants, I dislike people who devote their entire lives to Christianity. He believes that we should all follow a conduct of morality. He goes to church 4 times a week and worse, he brings it back to our house. I don't care about his religion, it's bad enough he has to rub it off on us all day. He keeps trying to persuade us that Obama is a follower of the Anti-Christ, the Earthquakes this year is Jesus coming back, God exists (little does he know that I believe a God exists but has nothing related to Christianity), that the bible is true because his interpretation of the bible is said to be true.
He acts like he can talk and write ancient Greek. He plays a flute.
He is the typical society person, certain things are wrong, certain things are right. It is wrong if you do certain things that are wrong and you must always do things that are right. Sociopaths are always wrong, people with personality disorders are always wrong and bad for a society... these kinds of things.
The worse part is, my sister is becoming like him. She goes to Church just as much, she got baptized, she is starting to pick up on his personality. She spends money she doesn't have to be with him. She starting to believe that certain things are wrong and right and she is just becoming him.
I have been through a number of relationships. I have come to realize that the best relationship I have been is when you are comfortable with yourself and with who you are and comfortable with the person you are with. I swear, she completely changed her personality to match exactly what this guys is. I was having a debate with my brother about being a sociopath (apparently I fit the traits of one as my girlfriend puts it) and how it can be good. My sister walks in with her boyfriend and immediately says "Sociopaths are bad" then quotes something from the bible as her proof.
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Pause. If you don't know who I am, I am a highly dedicated math major and deals with extremes amount of logic. Calling that a proof made me want to shit myself.
---
That's just my side of the story. Everyone in this house has always lived up to a certain standard and this guy falls below on almost all of them (cleaning up and such). Everyone in this house has some dislike in him.
My sister is obviously not going to say anything to him and he doesn't listen when we say stuff to him. So what should I do?
We all know their relationship is not going to last, if it does, it won't be a good one. I have been through something similar and it changed me completely.