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It's not. The rapist if he is found needs to pay child support for the duration of the child's upbringing. What would be best is that the rape never took place. It's shit situation to be in, but it's not the developing human's fault that it was created. The world is far from perfect and bad things happen, but that's no reason to murder a baby.

Why not force the rapist to take care of the baby and let the woman do as she pleases?
 

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That only works if you manage to catch the rapist, so that solution doesn't work in all situations.

Does it matter though? Pro-lifers don't care about extenuating circumstances, so not being able to find the rape daddy should be inconsequential as well, right?

At least until we get to the point that someone points out that this am unequatable comparison, avoiding the fact that this same logic is how every pro-lifer approaches any pro-choice argument.
 

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Isn't it though? You can say all you want you sympathize for the baby, but the rapist, more often that not, gets off with little to no punishment, while the woman has to live with that product the rest of its life, hers is she dies first.

Where's her sympathy for having to be reminded every day what happened?

It is possible to sympathize with a child despite the actions of its father. Perhaps even in spite of the actions of the father. The offense was in the crime itself. I also think it is unreasonable to expect the mother to be okay with it. Both mother and child can be seen as victims, but the child can still be a good thing to the mother and its community.

People who commit bad acts aren't the only ones that live with the consequences.
 
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So Republicans just voted against feeding the babies they are forcing you to have?
Republicans would say it's your responsibility to create a stable financial situation for yourself before you have children, because it's not their responsibility to feed your family. It's yours.

They don't seem to have a satisfactory answer for how to handle cases of rape and other unwanted pregnancies. Even if the sex is consensual and his condom breaks or her IUD fails, the reply is just, "Too bad! You shouldn't have had sex! See you in 18 years!"
 

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It is possible to sympathize with a child despite the actions of its father. Perhaps even in spite of the actions of the father. The offense was in the crime itself. I also think it is an unreasonable expectation of the mother, to expect her to be okay with it. Both mother and child can be seen as victims, but the child can still be a good thing to the mother and its community.

People who commit bad acts aren't the only ones that live with the consequences.

Of course. I can't speak for others, but please don't assume I lack all sympathy for children of any kind. However, even by just asking a woman to carry that kind of weight, even moreso forcing her to do it, to me is more of an injustice than eliminating something that, scientifically proven, has little to no brain movement during the early stages of pregnancy.

A common theme seems to be that pro- choicers pack sympathy for the fetus, but from what I've seen personally that's far from the truth. One can sympathize and still be willing to terminate because of the current state of environment, knowing what the child has to expect from the moment of conception onward.

Consequences also come in many forms. Just because a woman terminates her pregnancy doesn't mean she's absolved of consequences. Even aside from the metaphorical Scarlet Letter she dons, think about all the hormonal changes, the emotional and mental wear and tear on a person. Some abortions still lead to the death of the mother, even in cases where it was assured that the abortion was needed to save the mothers life. Just because they don't get to raise the child doesn't mean they're consequence free.
 

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Of course. I can't speak for others, but please don't assume I lack all sympathy for children of any kind. However, even by just asking a woman to carry that kind of weight, even moreso forcing her to do it, to me is more of an injustice than eliminating something that, scientifically proven, has little to no brain movement during the early stages of pregnancy.

A common theme seems to be that pro- choicers pack sympathy for the fetus, but from what I've seen personally that's far from the truth. One can sympathize and still be willing to terminate because of the current state of environment, knowing what the child has to expect from the moment of conception onward.

Consequences also come in many forms. Just because a woman terminates her pregnancy doesn't mean she's absolved of consequences. Even aside from the metaphorical Scarlet Letter she dons, think about all the hormonal changes, the emotional and mental wear and tear on a person. Some abortions still lead to the death of the mother, even in cases where it was assured that the abortion was needed to save the mothers life. Just because they don't get to raise the child doesn't mean they're consequence free.

My position was against the stigmatization of children (and mothers) involved by rape. I don't think that carrying the child to term is sympathetic to rape. My comment about consequences was about how victims have unpleasant realities to deal with, not an attempt in pursuing justice.
 
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I'm finding issue with your suggesting that carrying a baby to term (one that was a result of rape) is an act of sympathizing with rapists.
Because you don't understand it?
Because you don't understand it and you're offended by it?
Because you don't understand it, so you're offended by it?
 

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but that's no reason to murder a baby.
Nobody is talking about murdering babies, the conversation is about aborting a pregnancy.

If you are either having a different conversation, or using words incorrectly then this isn't going to get anywhere.

I didn't say I was a Republican. I said that's what a Republican would say. You must understand the arguments on all sides of an issue before you can have an informed opinion of your own. If you don't, the opposition will be able to easily poke holes in your case.

Sure, though if this thread is anything to go by they will just straw man you anyway.
 

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Because you don't understand it?
Because you don't understand it and you're offended by it?
Because you don't understand it, so you're offended by it?

For you? Sure, why not?

It is possible to sympathize with a child despite the actions of its father. Perhaps even in spite of the actions of the father. The offense was in the crime itself. I also think it is unreasonable to expect the mother to be okay with it. Both mother and child can be seen as victims, but the child can still be a good thing to the mother and its community.

People who commit bad acts aren't the only ones that live with the consequences.

My position was against the stigmatization of children (and mothers) involved by rape. I don't think that carrying the child to term is sympathetic to rape. My comment about consequences was about how victims have unpleasant realities to deal with, not an attempt in pursuing justice.
 
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Nobody is talking about murdering babies, the conversation is about aborting a pregnancy.

If you are either having a different conversation, or using words incorrectly then this isn't going to get anywhere.
It's important to take intended meaning into account. Although it's technically correct to say a fetus is not a baby, that's not what anti-abortion people are getting at, so trying to discredit their argument on a technicality is not persuasive.

When anti-abortion people say abortion is the same as killing babies, what they mean is that they consider a fetus to be a person, just as a baby is a person. The key question is, "At what point do a sperm and egg become a person?" A fetus isn't a baby, but it might be considered a person depending on how far the pregnancy has progressed and what your criteria are for personhood. If you think a fetus is a person, then you can only conclude that killing it is wrong. If it's not a person yet, you could conclude that killing it is acceptable.
 

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My argument is abortions should be safe, clean, and done by professionals. Anything less is only going to kill more people than help. And you are already paying for those kids the second they end up in the system. You are paying for them when parents need to go on government assistance. You are already paying for them, why not make it easier for these services instead of pretending their lives are less valuable? The only argument I am getting from you is that you don't really value other people.
You’re not very good at this. You grab a saw with the intention of cutting the opponent down, but you just end up sawing your own leg off instead and falling flat. You *just* said, not 5 posts ago, that people who are opposed to abortion should pay for the unwanted children who end up in this world as a result of their mothers being unable to abort them. Now, conveniently, you tell us that they already do (even though I outlined that it is not encumbent on them to do so, logically speaking). Is there anything else you’d like to undercut in your argument before we proceed? For the record, I’m all for medical procedures being safe, clean and done by professionals. I noticed that you dropped the “rare” part of the “safe, legal and rare” mantra usually associated with the abortion debate. Are we still on-board with the rare bit, or are we feeling unusually honest today?
 

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Rape victims being in the minority of abortion cases does not strengthen the pro-life stance. It's a moot point. Of the reported rape pregnancies we know about, it's roughly 25k-30k of these per year. That's a lot of people with a very horrible problem at hand, that directly relates to the abortion issue. And we all should know here that most rapes do not get reported.

To suggest these cases are irrelevant to the debate simply because it's the minority of reported cases, is to throw the baby out with the bathwater .
I disagree. You do not create policy to cater to the exception, you make general rules *with* exceptions. You’re not primarily concerned with the 2% that we can generally agree on (with very few dissenting voices, although they do exist), you’re primarily concerned with the 98%. We’re not taking about throwing the baby out with the bath water, we’re talking about forgetting about the baby in the tub for the sake of saving the rubber ducky.
Republicans would say it's your responsibility to create a stable financial situation for yourself before you have children, because it's not their responsibility to feed your family. It's yours.

They don't seem to have a satisfactory answer for how to handle cases of rape and other unwanted pregnancies. Even if the sex is consensual and his condom breaks or her IUD fails, the reply is just, "Too bad! You shouldn't have had sex! See you in 18 years!"
Having sex carries the inherent possibility of causing a pregnancy - this is pretty much priced into the equation. We take reasonable precautions to prevent that (or we should, if we don’t want unwanted pregnancies), but the failure of those precautions does not transfer the responsibility onto third-parties. Similarly, driving carries the inherent risk of death or injury. We generally try to drive responsibly, but we can’t control for every variable and accidents do happen. That doesn’t transfer the responsibility onto the rest of society - somebody caused the accident, be it by negligence or an unfortunate twist of fate. It’s not my fault, and I don’t see any convincing reason why I should be burdened with the consequences of somebody else’s failure to drive safely.
 
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It's important to take intended meaning into account. Although it's technically correct to say a fetus is not a baby, that's not what anti-abortion people are getting at, so trying to discredit their argument on a technicality is not persuasive.
Just trying to stop them being disingenuous. Because until they stop doing that, the debate won't move forward.

Which makes me think they don't want the debate to move forward.
 

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Having sex carries the inherent possibility of causing a pregnancy
Crossing the road carries the possibility of getting run over. We don't force people into the ultimate conclusion.

If a pregnancy is caused, then what is the reason for forcing them to go full term? If the person abstained or their contraception worked, then the potential baby would not exist either.
 

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