A lot of sarcastic comments really. But I still stick to temp for support when it comes to relationships and all that
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It was AMAZING with her, even though I was stressed and upset about other things. She smiled and laughed the whole time we spent together.
She asked me at the end, "what are we than".
To which I havent given her a answer to...
To that I would reply, at this point, "I guess we'll have to see as we go." or something of the sort. I never find it easy to just outright say "OH YES WE ARE NOW A COUPLE".
My girlfriend and I knew we wanted to be a couple when we went on our first date - she told me she really liked me, I told her I really liked her, and without saying "Yes, we are dating now" we knew.
What I say is to give it time and be yourself. If something is to come of it, then through the course of the relationship it'll happen. If not, you won't feel like you wasted all of that effort to try to make something happen. Personally, I would ask her on another date within the next few days/weeks. Do that a few times, and I think by that point, both of you will have the answer to the question.
Edit - granted, I never had to cross the friendzone with my girlfriend. We work together, she was a lot newer than I, but we hit it off and two weeks later we went out for dinner. But I think that some, if not most of the same principals still apply - the only thing extra that you're risking is the
possibility for a marred friendship. I had two girlfriends in high school (at different times, mind you!). The first, she was one of my best friends for a year or two, we got closer and closer, then I asked her out. Went
okay for four months, then ended; I couldn't bear to talk to her for the first month, then I got over myself and we're back to being friends (we just never see each other). The second, we dated for a week a few years ago, broke up, then a year after that we started talking again and I asked her out. Almost two years and two breakups after that, I don't even want to breathe the same air as her if at all possible for more than two minutes. And now she pulls all of this facebook shit how "I used to think you were great but now I see you treated me like crap". It's comical, really, considering I go out of my way to be as nice and polite as I possibly could be. I think she actually didn't like that, LOL.