What would you do if a girl invite you to her house?

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  1. haipro2001
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    I'm 16 years old and single. 2 days ago a girl of same age invited me to her house to eat lunch she cooked. Her parents will be away. We've known each other for just a week. We are not dating. I haven't accepted her invite yet. I'm too shy. What would you do if you were me???? :'(
    Sorry for my stupid english.
     
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  2. Hayleia

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    Go, see what happens, act accordingly. Maybe she wants sex. Maybe she just wants to eat with you and remain friends only. You seem like you don't know, but there's no reason why we would know better.
     
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    I'm too shy to go :'(
     
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    Just go and spend some time with your new friend. Nothing to worry really.
     
  5. haipro2001
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    But she's a girl ... and i'm too shy. I also don't know what's she planning?
     
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    Between insane and insecure
    If you do decide to hangout with her, just be a decent and respectful person.
     
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    Honestly I believe you are worrying a bit too much :P
     
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    But you want to go. Otherwise you would not have made this thread. So just accept her invite. Then you'll be forced to go because you'll be too shy to cancel.
    And just remain yourself. Don't suppose she wants to be more than friends. If she wants that, you'll see it*, but don't react to no action.

    *jk maybe you won't see shit but it's better to not make a step in the right direction than to make one in the wrong one.
     
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    Oh, boy. This is gonna be a good thread to read in the morning. grabs popcorn

    Seriously, though, she likely just wants to hang out with a new friend. Just because she's a girl doesn't mean she's some alien creature waiting to plot your untimely demise. No need to worry about it. If something more does happen, well hey, bonus. But you shouldn't go into that invite expecting any more than a nice lunch with a friend.
     
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    Sometimes I'm glad I'm not a chick otherwise people would open threads on videogame forums whenever I invite them over for a coffee.
     
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    Go? I must admit that I can be shy sometimes, and would rely on some topic of discussion that I can totally get into, like movies. So, rather than wait for that to start, how about, if it gets too silent and awkward, start up a topic. Lunch, how about asking what food she likes to eat, what she likes to cook. If you ever cooked and sucked at it, that'd be an opportunity to share laughs. I'm not an expert at this, at all, but it really doesn't hurt to find something to talk about. Talking and eye contact works the best.

    Sigh, I was tempted to make a dirty joke about this topic, but I took this seriously instead, surprising.
     
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    Bring a condom just to be safe but she probably just wants to be friends. Don't expect to spend the afternoon in her bedroom.
     
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    Dude! Free food! Get your ass over there.
     
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    "Maybe she wants sex"
    I was already thinking that someone would post that, but I didn't expect it to be the first post, jesus christ.
    Here's a pro-tip: If a girl, or guy for that matter, wants to have sex with you while only knowing you for such a short period of time, that should be a massive red flag for anyone.

    To OP: Just go there, hang out, do stuff friends do and have a good time.

    I'm not sure what I expected other than "DUDE, GIRL INVITED YOU HOME SHE WANTS TO FUCK!". Gaming related forums never cease to meet my expectations when it comes to this.
     
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    You did not get my post then. On the contrary, I was telling the OP that there was no reason to think she wanted sex. So there was no reason to be all like "what do I do? I'm doomed" and make a topic on a gaming forum. Just go without any expectations because there was not "I want sex" on the paper.
     
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    There was one time when a girl I met online invited me to her city and I strongly suspected she wanted sex. But this was the "fool's mate"; a girl who poses no challenge and just wants to get laid. I don't think she was trying to scam me or sell me as a slave because she was annoying as hell, she didn't have the charisma necessary to be a con artist. I'll never know what would have happened between us because she was so annoying I cut off all contact with her.

    Every other time a girl has invited me to see her sex was not on her mind.
     
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    Lol nobody would invite me.
     
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    Say yes, or you'll regret it. Then act as if your and her parents, grand parents, brothers and sisters, teachers, police etc are there.
     
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    She don't want to have sex with you.

    Just relax, eat, and enjoy the time with her. :-)
     
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    I've been always thinking like that. I was just a useless dude........ ... ...

    But she also invited me to watch SAO movie with her at the cinema 2 weeks later. I'm gonna have to pay the tickets.
    overpriced food!
     
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