pfft "team cyclops" that made my day
Anyway - those messages Nintendo gives - legal scareware. It's quite funny you're falling for it - since you're bowing down to the CycloDS. Especially with the quotes you posted, which clearly target flash cart devices like the CycloDS.
Rydian made a thread on a similar topic about how Nintendo's legal wording over the years has grown increasingly frightening, but it's all mostly empty threats.
http://gbatemp.net/threads/3ds-bricking-rumor.284730/
Granted, the thread talks about rumors of 3DS bricking by playing unauthorized games, but I believe it relevant. Maybe you should give it a read.
Also - I agree. The companies don't owe us squat. But if Supercard wants us to buy their DSTwo, they better damn well be supporting it. Support is of the utmost importance to 3DS users. As I have said before, some of us use our 3DS almost exclusively. We have to fear of cart blocking. When a team releases a fix, it's a huge sigh of relief to owners of the cart. As Acekard has died, because they are unwilling to come up with a revision, that to me was huge. Both my friend and I cannot use our old AK2i on the 3DS because of firmware blocking. I couldn't even use it in my Japanese 3DS because the firmware is too advanced, despite it still being on the same firmware as when I bought the system.
I know damn well all of this could be avoided by simply getting a DSLite, but I'm a little tight on funds at the moment. I also like to be able to play my flash cart and 3DS games in the same system, and that I clearly cannot do in a DSLite. For some, it is also a matter of convenience.
Just because something may not be an issue to you, don't forget it may be an issue to some of us.