Advice?

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Feb 14, 2008

Advice? by VVoltz at 2:14 AM (2,860 Views / 0 Likes) 40 replies

  1. VVoltz
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    A friend of mine who is almost my age (he is 25) is having a hard time.... a girl that he knew not too long ago really likes him and more so, he told me that he likes her (she happens to be a friend of his family).
    I saw them the other day, you can tell she has a crush on him (I didn't believe him).
    She is 15 1/2. It was the first time I met her and, yes, he is right, she looks older than that.

    The problem is, last weekend, he told me the girl kissed him and he kissed her back, now he is worried (totally understandable!), and he is asking me for an advice.
    I seriously told him to step back, do whatever it takes to get rid of her and pretend it never happened, he can not also get into trouble, he can get in jail.
    What do you guys think?
     


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    Definitely step back...this can land you in jail easy.
    Tell him to wait until she hits 18, or find another girl :\
     
  3. fischju

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    Check age of consent laws in your country, it some US states it's 14!
     
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    WATCH OUT FOR CHRIS HANSEN !
     
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    Is it a 'friend' or is it you, or it is AntiVVoltz? [​IMG]

    Just tell him/yourself to find another girl. That's what I would do.
     
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    I can't be "in before Jailbait"... [​IMG]
    Just follow what Sailor said, wait till she's 18. If she looks older than her age, then she can't be a loli. D:
     
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    Tell him to take a seat.. right over there..
    [​IMG]

    edit: If he think it's worth the risk.. if she really is "mature" for her age, you can have the wrong impressions about people some times.. he should try spending some more time with her before making this decision..
     
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    Move with your auntie and uncle in bel-air.

    As someone said, check age of consent, and age-difference exceptions. In some countries, the age-difference exception may be as high as 12 years.
     
  10. VVoltz
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    Well, we all live here in the US.
     
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    Well, unless you live in Utah, it is illegal [​IMG]
     
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    MD. Well, I really don't think he'll make something stupid. If he does, I'll buy him a big box of Liquid Soap.
     
  13. notnarb

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    It's secksual intercourse that makes it illegal, can he keep it in his pants?
     
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    "Unlawful carnal knowledge" I think is what it is called, and 3rd base would probably be considered that.
     
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    Well in my country its age 16 to be legal [​IMG] . But seriously just tell him to back off, there's bound to be someone else out there and just be supportive of him and don't try to force him to much.
     
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    I don't think age of consent works here in the Philippines so I can't really make a suggestion. A friend got a 15 year old pregnant and I know someone who almost got life imprisonment but the girl threatened to kill herself unless her family pulled out the case.

    Still, I mean I've dated a 13 year old on and off for years but, I'm not a pedophile. [​IMG] No sex = no statutory rape.
    It's a healthy relationship that involves coffee, books and movies. (right)
     
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    is it illegal to date a 16 year old? [​IMG]
     
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    only the kind of date with a happy ending
     
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    So, as long as he doesn't have sex, he could give it a try no? Then he could get to know the girls' parents and all that. If they seem to be ok with it, they could get naked and stuff. If the parents are not ok with it, just date for 2.5 years without any sex, if he really likes her she's worth it no?
     
  20. Veho

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    Yeah but who knows if she'll go on liking him for two and a half years.


    I advise caution. [​IMG]

    Correction. I advise running. Stay away. Seriously. Bad news. "Legal/illegal" parlance aside, it's just baaad mojo.
     

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