17 year old - 15 year old??

[vergilite]

ok so my friends younger sisters friend is 15 and im 17, i kinda find her attractive she is not to young as she is turning 16 soon but what do you guys think, should i progress or backoff??

 

[Vidboy10]

Cool story bro

 

[vergilite]

Cool story bro

ROFLCOPPTER

 

[Eternal Myst]

Make your move. Theres nothing wrong with dating younger girls.

 

[Crass]

If you have to ask a forum on the internet(especially this one), then the answer is: No.

 

[Skyline969]

Ignore Crass. 2 years' difference is nothing, especially once you get older. Now, it may seem a little bit of a stretch (not really, as my 20 year old friend's girlfriend is 14), but there's not a damn thing wrong with it.

 

[wyndcrosser]

Because I found this topic on the main web site and decided to reply, 15 (almost 16) isn't bad, however the fellow with the 20yr with a 14yr is down right DISGUSTING and needs to stop. Your son is incredibly sad and since your letting your child handle himself in that way, you most likely are a rather terrible person yourself.

Yea i know, flame away, but you know I'm RIGHT.

Wynd

 

[silent sniper]

Ignore Crass. 2 years' difference is nothing, especially once you get older. Now, it may seem a little bit of a stretch (not really, as my 20 year old friend's girlfriend is 14), but there's not a damn thing wrong with it.

now thats pushing it, i think.

 

[benjaminlibl]

Eh. 20 year old with 14 year old? That's pretty wrong. If he was 17 then I think it would be different.

You can't blame him, though, with a parent who's totally supportive of what he's doing.

 

[DeMoN]

The average groom is 5.3 years older than his bride.
(found this on my shampoo bottle)
So I don't think there's anything wrong with it.

 

[hobowithin]

This thread is approved by pedobear.

 

[NeSchn]

If its your friends sister, I wouldn't touch it. If you do go out with her and break up, you have a possibility of fucking up your friendship with your friend.

Women are nothing to lose friendships over.

 

[Hop2089]

This thread is approved by pedobear.

In Before those [you know the phrase I say] giving illegal and inappropriate advice.

Don't touch, you're too close to legal age.

 

[geminisama]

This thread is approved by pedobear.

In Before those [you know the phrase I say] giving illegal and inappropriate advice.

Don't touch, you're too close to legal age.

So is she. She'll turn legal before he turns 18, so it will be fine afterwards.

 

[DarkWay]

there's nothing wrong with that and for god sake people 20 year old with a 14 year old isn't that bad seriously aslong as there not freakin stupid about it all then yeah its fine, it comes down to it being more whens its more like a 32 year old taking interest in a 14 year THAT's wrong (it happened to my friend luckily she confided in someone before it got nasty).

go for it man if you like her that much tbh your friendship doesn't mean jack compored to being happy

 

[Hop2089]

there's nothing wrong with that and for god sake people 20 year old with a 14 year old isn't that bad seriously aslong as there not freakin stupid about it all then yeah its fine, it comes down to it being more whens its more like a 32 year old taking interest in a 14 year THAT's wrong (it happened to my friend luckily she confided in someone before it got nasty).

go for it man if you like her that much tbh your friendship doesn't mean jack compored to being happy

That is illegal is every place in the world save for Belgium and if you are in Belgium it's still bad because she's still is technically too young for a 20 something. Why in the world do men (and some really messed up women) want 13-14 year old girls? Such shameful people need serious help and maybe a straight jacket.

 

[Veho]

17 and 15-going-on-16? Perfectly fine. I'd worry more about the fact that it's your friend's sister. Nothing good can come of it.

 

[vergilite]

sorry to burst your bubble guys but its not my friends sister, i stated in the first post that it was my friends younger sisters FRIEND, so no friendship will ruined. but take into consideration that i have known her for about 1-2 years by seeing her at my friends house, i didn't talk to her much (im quite shy

) and there is no guarantee that i will actually succeed but i was asking your opinion on whether i should try or not.

 

[Tetram]

there's nothing wrong with that and for god sake people 20 year old with a 14 year old isn't that bad seriously aslong as there not freakin stupid about it all then yeah its fine, it comes down to it being more whens its more like a 32 year old taking interest in a 14 year THAT's wrong (it happened to my friend luckily she confided in someone before it got nasty).

go for it man if you like her that much tbh your friendship doesn't mean jack compored to being happy

Problem is : when you're 14, a date does not mean "having sex". Of course you can kiss, etc., but you rarely lose your virginity at that age, and if you do, I believe it's wrong. At 20, it is much different. When you date a girl at 20, you cannot be happy with only french kiss. So you will need to go further, and a 14 year old teenage girl needs a step back before she has sex.
Maybe I sound "old fashionned", but I do believe that you shall not have sex if you're too young...
Perhaps the 20 year old guy knows what he does and respect the age of his girlfriend, but I'm sure it's very difficult for him to do so. As far as I'm concerned, when I was 20, I didn't want to stay "platonic" for years... But when I was 20, I was not interested by 14 years girls...

 

[Veho]

my friends younger sisters FRIEND

So you practically don't know her. So the thing you're concerned about is the age difference. Don't be. Just go for it. Good luck.