"Try having your life ruined and see how you feel."
Oh, I have. I've been abused, I've been traumatized. I have PTSD from it. It affects me horribly every day, and I don't like it.
Abusers don't want to be better. They want to hurt people. Abusers will lie and say whatever people want to hear then say, just to get the attention off then so that can go back to being abusive. Please learn this: abusers want to hurt people, they do not want to improve themselves and be kind to people.
And people like that don't deserve a second chance, because they won't take that second chance, because they don't want to be good.
You've been abused and Traumatized?
Have you had all avenues of legitimate work in your specialty sealed off to you?
Have you had all your friends shun you to the point you were isolated and entirely alone?
Were you ever put into a point that you had constant mail telling you to go die? That you are worth nothing?
If the answer to any of these are no, then no, you have not "had your life ruined". A person can come back from any of these individually. Maybe at worst two, but having all 3? That's life crippling. That's truly 'ruining a person's life'. When you 'ruin a person's life' you are driving their self worth and self esteem to non-existent values. You are effectively 'killing' them.
You say abusers 'do not want to improve themselves'. Do you not realize that you are abusing the abusers? You are abusing them to the point they don't WANT to improve. Why should they try with people like you who are going to continue to kick them down, even when they try to lift themselves up? Of course, you don't care. You don't care if they try, you exist in a court of your own personal opinion.
To my knowledge, he has not admitted to sexual assault. If he's lying, then he should be buried as much as any sexual predator (be put on a public list of sexual predators, it should haunt him).
ANYONE who wishes someone's life to be ruined is basically saying they want to kill the person, without having the blood directly on their hands as ruining the person often causes suicide.
He denied all sex abuse/assault/harrassment claims, the things that could land him in prison. He's a predator attempting to squeeze the last bit of good faith out of his victims and ex-fans.
Can you prove the sexual abuse/assault/harassment is a thing? Until you can, I suggest you calm that down. For all we know the sexual end might entirely be the same as the Vic Mignogna case - people simply wanting to jump on the hate bandwagon. I am not saying it ISN'T true, but that it's also likely it is false too. We have no hard proof and some people know sexual assault/etc is a good way of stirring up hate, getting sympathy points, etc.
I know that may make you angry, but consider the "MeToo" movement's history, how many false cases have already been confirmed, sometimes by the ones who claimed the sexual harassment. Remember Johnny Depp? How we found out it was his wife abusing him, and not the other way around? That's a good example. At this point, thanks to the "MeToo" bandwagoners who have abused the movement to gain fame or traction with no basis, it's honestly hard to trust ANY accusations of sexual misconduct seriously because it's become so convolutedly hijacked as a method for destroying people with no proof since people jump on that bandwagon WAY too easily..
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