I like lives; it makes me feel safe. I remember when I first played Super Mario Bros. 3. I would die every few levels. I remember in world 3, level 8; I died 22 times. No bullshit. Boss battles were another thing. On average in my first playthrough, I'd probably died 3 times on each boss. But after six/seven months of playing, (or longer; I forget) it was on a Saturday morning at 10 when I reached the first level of World 8. My sister had been playing this with me; she'd gotten through a bunch of levels I couldn't. Anyway, we went ballistic with excitement. And then, that was when the real dying started. We tried many, many times to get through the fortress after the first two levels, but we just died so much that we finally used a Lakitu's Cloud to skip it. And we did this in future playthroughs as well. Then, there was the final fortress, where we died countless times. Obviously, we'd gotten past the ship that came after the first fortress, for which we were greatly relieved after dying so much in there. Then, we died countless times doing Bowser's Fortress. I remember the first time when we got to Bowser's chamber; we were ecstatic. Of course we died, but we knew how to get there. And after many more failed attempts at defeating them, we finally did and rescued the princess. We were crying because we were so happy.
So you can see, I have a great fondness for lives in Mario games; they really are a life saver. But of course you people don't like lives; it slows down the progress of the game because getting lives takes up so much time in the levels; that's how easy it is. I say getting 40 lives in one level means you are a really good player. But some people aren't as good at these games as you, so you slur them and call them awful gamers because they can't get as many lives in a level as you can. To which I say: fuck you. Being an elite gamer doesn't give you the right to slur an average gamer. But, it's a common concept that as you attain higher levels in a social medium (in this case, gaming), you begin to get arrogant and think everyone is beneath you. And you believe this gives you the right to slur them. I swear, if I was an elite gamer, I would have respect for people who weren't as good as me because I remember a time when I was just as bad as they were.