If you live in flats or housing without a driveway people will sue you if they trip over your charge cable if you are charging from the street via an extension to your house/flat. Either that or you need to go and sit in some janky petrol station for hours on end waiting for your shit mobile to charge up all while paying more than you pay for petrol. Never mind the range anxiety if you drive for 50 miles or so and then wondering if you'll have enough charge to get home again in the winter when it's snowing and you're stuck in traffic with the heater on sapping away at your mileage. Then there's the mad insurance costs as some EV's are becoming uninsurable. Scrap the car if it's been in a minor crash and then wonder if it's going to catch fire and set your house ablaze or fry you into a crisp if you can't get out in time while the battery comes into contact with oxygen.
Never mind the entire infrastructure of the country needing to install thicker cables so they can handle the amperage of thousands of cars charging at the same time. Then what do you do when there's a major incident such as a hurricane heading your way - you can't drive far and you certainly can't sit a queue for 1000+ hours waiting for your turn to charge up. EV's are not the future. Save your money and buy a horse and cart, the elites will be OK though, while the rest of us live like the Amish.
Solid state batteries solve a lot of the issues you mentioned (I feel like you didn't read the OP)
You act like combustion engines are perfect, far from it, their complexity makes them far more likely to break down (especially as they age), and makes repairs more expensive. And they're perfectly capable of catching fire/exploding if damaged as well, this is not something unique to EVs. Not to mention they're killing the planet, they're just not sustainable.
I will grant you that EVs in their current state might not be perfect, but neither are gas powered vehicles. Hydrogen fuel cells are a technology that has potential to be the future of vehicles, if it wasn't for one thing, the high complexity and therefore, price. They are pretty much always going to be more expensive to make/buy than the alternatives, greatly limiting their appeal.
Gas powered vehicles really do not have a place in the modern world though. The technology peaked a while ago, there is not much they can continue improving. EVs are still a young technology, and still have great potential for improvements.
Counterpoint to hurricanes/major incidents:
What you are pointing out is not an issue with EVs specifically, but with our reliance on grid power in general. That's a big reason why why many people go fully self-sufficient with solar.
If the apocalypse/end of the world actually happened one day (like preppers are so worried about), you could continue charging an EV on just solar. Gasoline, on the other hand, has an expiry date, so gas powered cars would be made useless in 6 months-1 yr.
Obviously, that's a hypothetical scenario. Just trying to make the point that in any areas where longer power outages are common due to natural disasters (or otherwise), solar is the perfect solution to that and anyone living there should be strongly considering it.