All I'm saying is, you're not born a pro. This isn't basketball or the NFL.
Have a little patience. You were there yourself at one time in the past. What you consider common knowledge doesn't apply anymore. This is the age of youtube videos and social media. It's all "answers now... on demand". They never stop to consider relevancy.
"If its online...it must be true!"
You're still talking about people who are "NEW" and that's not WTF this is about whatsoever!!! Just let it go bro, clearly this discussion has got you feeling some type of way but I can tell you right now that I'm NOT the person to be discussing your emotions with.