My best friend apparently hates me

Fudge

Remember that death is not the end, but only a tra
OP
Banned
Joined
Aug 26, 2009
Messages
2,653
Trophies
1
Age
28
Location
New York
Website
Visit site
XP
707
Country
United States
I was just talking to my best friend on Facebook, and he said he hates gay/bi people. He pretty much said he hates me (I'm bi). He got offline before I could ask him any questions. I'm just a little sad
sad.gif
 

BloodyFlame

Well-Known Member
Member
Joined
Aug 6, 2010
Messages
361
Trophies
0
Location
California
XP
216
Country
United States
He just hates them in general, not specifically you. If you tell him, maybe he'll think differently about gay/bi people in general or you specifically.
 

nutella

Low Glycemic Index
Member
Joined
Sep 4, 2008
Messages
1,095
Trophies
1
Age
32
Location
Your nearest supermarket
Website
Visit site
XP
237
Country
TwinRetro said:
hate is a word spread around without meaning these days.
Pretty much this. People do it all the time. My friend told me he hates dorks who spend too much time around computers and then proceeded with the typical "Not you, you're different" line. He probably just hates the stereotypical gays that he sees but doesn't actually personally know. It's not that bad.
 

Fudge

Remember that death is not the end, but only a tra
OP
Banned
Joined
Aug 26, 2009
Messages
2,653
Trophies
1
Age
28
Location
New York
Website
Visit site
XP
707
Country
United States
Thoob said:
Some best friend. Does he know about your sexuality?
unsure.gif
He was the first person I told. I told him back in August, and he didn't really care or say anything about it.
 

Schlupi

Gbatemp's Official Earthbound Maniac™
Member
Joined
Aug 31, 2007
Messages
3,985
Trophies
1
Age
32
Location
Rozen Queen Co, Chicago Branch
Website
Starmen.net
XP
745
Country
United States
fudgenuts64 said:
Thoob said:
Some best friend. Does he know about your sexuality?
unsure.gif
He was the first person I told. I told him back in August, and he didn't really care or say anything about it.

I see. So you told him a while back and now he says he hates gay/bi people... Essentially meaning you fall under that category.

I would say just ask him about it the next time you get the chance. It sucks to sit and self-loathe (you have nothing to be ashamed of, don't feel bad about who you are) and try to figure out why he said what he did.

Obviously if you two are best friends he does not hate you.
wink.gif


I think with a little talking you could figure this out.

I wish you the best.
 

Kwartel

The fairest in all the land
Member
Joined
Apr 11, 2009
Messages
1,298
Trophies
2
Age
30
XP
479
Country
Netherlands
Schlupi said:
fudgenuts64 said:
Thoob said:
Some best friend. Does he know about your sexuality?
unsure.gif
He was the first person I told. I told him back in August, and he didn't really care or say anything about it.

I see. So you told him a while back and now he says he hates gay/bi people... Essentially meaning you fall under that category.

I would say just ask him about it the next time you get the chance. It sucks to sit and self-loathe (you have nothing to be ashamed of, don't feel bad about who you are) and try to figure out why he said what he did.

Obviously if you two are best friends he does not hate you.
wink.gif


I think with a little talking you could figure this out.

I wish you the best.
This! Or else he's just saying it have a decent (kinda) argument to hate you!
 

Fudge

Remember that death is not the end, but only a tra
OP
Banned
Joined
Aug 26, 2009
Messages
2,653
Trophies
1
Age
28
Location
New York
Website
Visit site
XP
707
Country
United States
Schlupi said:
fudgenuts64 said:
Thoob said:
Some best friend. Does he know about your sexuality?
unsure.gif
He was the first person I told. I told him back in August, and he didn't really care or say anything about it.

I see. So you told him a while back and now he says he hates gay/bi people... Essentially meaning you fall under that category.

I would say just ask him about it the next time you get the chance. It sucks to sit and self-loathe (you have nothing to be ashamed of, don't feel bad about who you are) and try to figure out why he said what he did.

Obviously if you two are best friends he does not hate you.
wink.gif


I think with a little talking you could figure this out.

I wish you the best.
Thanks. I'm gonna try to talk to him about a lot of things next time I get the chance.
 

Site & Scene News

Popular threads in this forum

General chit-chat
Help Users
  • No one is chatting at the moment.
  • K3Nv3 @ K3Nv3:
    Every console has shovel ware which most agree are all poo
    +1
  • BigOnYa @ BigOnYa:
    Switch 2 will be your most powerful handheld (most likely) but Nintendo has always been a generation behind Sony/ Xbox, so doubt it will get the newest of games, n if it does, will be a watered down version, like Switch 1 got
  • K3Nv3 @ K3Nv3:
    Most powerful hardly series x specs will still crap on it
  • BigOnYa @ BigOnYa:
    Most powerful handheld I said. I imagine it won't last long tho, ROG or Steamdeck 2 will prob overpower it. I will prob buy a switch2 tho, gotta have that Mariokart 9.
  • K3Nv3 @ K3Nv3:
    I kinda doubt that also Asus will keep releasing or if Xbox doesn't come out with some handheld by then
  • K3Nv3 @ K3Nv3:
    Og switch was kind of the first most powerful option for it's portability time
    +1
  • BigOnYa @ BigOnYa:
    Yea Sony and Xbox working on a handheld now even.
  • K3Nv3 @ K3Nv3:
    Going to be good times for the portability market though I could see some type of vr/handheld hybrid device
    +1
  • BigOnYa @ BigOnYa:
    That would be cool
  • K3Nv3 @ K3Nv3:
    Same old stuff gets so played out kind of like smartphones now
  • BigOnYa @ BigOnYa:
    I'm thinking of selling my current drum machine, piano keyboard, and few synthesizers, and buy a new $699 drum machine/ workstation. Downsize but upgrade. But like any device, ill never get the money I paid into it. Hard to let stuff go for half what you paid.
    +1
  • K3Nv3 @ K3Nv3:
    https://a.co/d/cUeVFEO lol brother p touch
  • Xdqwerty @ Xdqwerty:
    @Skelletonike, I only played Digimon world ds
  • Pae @ Pae:
    anyone know if the cmd resistor exists on a v1 switch
  • Pae @ Pae:
    thanks
    +1
  • Xdqwerty @ Xdqwerty:
    @Pae, you're welcome
  • Xdqwerty @ Xdqwerty:
    Something I don't like about playing on my game tv stick is that theres sometimes an input lag of 1 entire frickin second.
  • Xdqwerty @ Xdqwerty:
    Good night
  • Psionic Roshambo @ Psionic Roshambo:
    @K3Nv3, just my opinion but more games on the platform does increase the odds of some of them being awesome
    +1
  • K3Nv3 @ K3Nv3:
    A 12,000 in one odd of finding not a shit game good luck
  • K3Nv3 @ K3Nv3:
    Just like how og Xbox has about 3tb worth of games and only 500gb worth of goodies it's not going to be any different
  • K3Nv3 @ K3Nv3:
    It's realistic thinking not that I don't want good ones
  • BigOnYa @ BigOnYa:
    A double negative
    BigOnYa @ BigOnYa: A double negative