Just a heads up, there's basically a 100% chance I won't get back to anyone who has a reply to my comment because I check this site like once every three months, but I thought I would add my two cents anyway.
I'm Catholic, so I'll probably be saying Catholic ways of thinking about things, but here's the way we look at it.
If you're Christian and you are conscious of all of the things that are considered "sins" (now that's a loaded term), then all of those offenses that you commit fully go against you. Anyway, we have to look at these words closely regarding homosexuality. All of the quotes that were listed already focus on the actual homosexual ACT. None of them have to do specifically with having same-sex sexual preferences. A homosexual act done by a homosexual man, or a heterosexual man are one and the same "sin". Having same-sex sexual preferences is in no way sinful, only when the person has homosexual relations is it considered "offensive" by God.
Now, other people are also right in the fact that Christians should be all about loving one another. Out of the Catechism of the Catholic Church: "They (number of men and women who have deep-seated homosexuality tendencies) must be accepted with respect, compassion, and sensitivity. Every sign of unjust discrimination in their regard should be avoided. These persons are called to fulfill God's will in their lives and, if they are Christians, to unite to the sacrifice of the Lord's Cross the difficulties they may encounter from their condition." (2358), Also, if anyone is curious, it goes on to say,
"Homosexual persons are called to chastity. By the virtues of self-mastery that teach them inner freedom, at times by the support of disinterested friendship, by prayer and sacramental grace, they can and should gradually and resolutely approach Christian perfection." (2359). Obviously, this paragraph can only be realistically applied to homosexual Christians.
So there you go. Straight out of the Catechism. Nowhere in there does it say to be hateful at all! On the contrary, we should treat them with "respect, compassion, and sensitivity". After all, they, like everyone else, are one of God's children and just like everyone else, God has a plan for them, whether they follow that plan, whatever it may be, or not.
This is why discussions here involving black people are totally irrelevant.