... Every game using manual saves?
Granted, even those had a way to restart the level, but e.g. starting somewhere midway doom 1 or 2 (original) with just a basic pistol wasn't something you'd recover from. So you better not relied on a single save game back then, because if that happened to be made one microsecond before you got hit by the cyberdemon's bullet you were screwed.
I can also point out that simulation games also had a way of letting you stumble. A game like frostpunk is awesome, but it really only powered up on what earlier sim games implied. Forgot to build that one building that let you gain income? Chances are you were screwed already but you didn't know it until you slowly bled out until all the small mistakes caught up with you (for the record: frostpunk almost literally rubs it in. "oh, so you didn't bother to put heat before anything else? Now THIS poor child is going to horribly starve to a freezing death because YOU thought it was important that they had houses first!!!"
). It's been long, but I'm fairly sure it took me some hours and restarting into sim city 2000 that you DON'T want to build a fire station, police station, power plant, school, university, library, salt water refreshener, trains, highway AND a subway before you build your first zoning districts.
Ahem...but that aside: I immediately thought of final fantasy 8. I've rambled about that monstrosity for some time, but yes, that game f***ks you in the a***se without condom (while contaminated with aids and corona) with an electrified barbed wire fence...figuratively.
Basically: somewhere in th very first CD (or hour) of the game you are introduced to a retarded card game. You can play it with pretty much any NPC, but aside from being boring, completely luck based and having jack shit to do with the actual story, it was at least optional. So I ignored it for something between 4 and a gazzilion hours.
Then, somewhere on the last CD, you are advancing on some evil gothic lair fortress castle of doom and you suddenly lose all that you've gathered. Took me save scrumming to advance because monsters just sneeze you to oblivion (oh, right: another thing I hate that game: monsters level up with you, effectively undercutting the entire leveling system). So then I faced...whomever I was chasing/hunting/challenging, and it went exactly alike. None of that "oh, she accidentally critical hit on every one of her machine gun hits" bullshit either. It was almost insulting that after a couple of attempts I managed to get 1 point of damage through (of about 2000 or something).
So I checked something on that new fad called "the internet". After some browsing I stumbled upon a walkthrough that told me that in order to get to that part, I had better powered up on cards as those gave some skills that apparently weren't taken.
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So yeah, I was pissed. I had thought I had bought a "next gen" game with duelling gunblades and Gregorian chanting on the background, but as it turned out I had ACTUALLY bought a card game with some turn based combat thrown in for good measure.