Is it normal that I find sex gross?

Is it normal that I find sex gross?

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Amapola62

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I'm 28 and I'm not interested in having sex...In fact I find it more gross and terrifying than something I'm looking forward to...I think it will hurt, I'm afraid of STDs and of becoming pregnant by accident...

Does that make me anormal?
 

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Can you explicit your answer?

Yes...I knew people would react like this...:glare: I sometimes wonder what got me repulsed by sex...
 
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Never really felt attracted to anybody apart from a few people...: 2 fictional characters : N and Cecil Harvey (FFIV hero), my american litterature teacher who was double my age (probably), and a German boy who was physically my opposite in everyway (tall and blond while I am small and a brunette)
 

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Normal? Depends what you mean by normal but in terms of percentages then not especially.
Is it a problem? Do you find it a problem?
If you don't you might well be some flavour of asexual, not all that are find the idea of sex to be gross but some do and it is quite a wide field/spectrum. I don't know what the French term is (edit, apparently it is just Asexualité) but the English one should get you somewhere to start with. Afraid the main website I would link, http://www.asexuality.org/ , appears to be down right now.
If you* do find it a problem then you might well have some flavour of disorder, again I have no idea what the French names for things might be but even if I did the same policy I have in English would be in effect -- I try not to use my limited knowledge here to diagnose people via text. In that case you might wish to speak to your doctor or someone in the psychology trade, there are a variety of things that can be done here.

*if your family and friends find it a problem and you do not then that is a different matter. It can be an odd one there -- if you said you were gay then even if they were some ultra religious idiots they might still be able to respect it as a concept, the lack of desire is so alien to some people that they have real trouble grasping it.

Hope you get to somewhere you are happy.
 

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I'm 28 and I'm not interested in having sex...In fact I find it more gross and terrifying than something I'm looking forward to...I think it will hurt, I'm afraid of STDs and of becoming pregnant by accident...

Does that make me anormal?

definately abnormal but dont tell it to anybody unless someone really loves you and is willing to work with you on your issues.
 

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Here's a fun test.
If the thing in the spoiler doesn't make you feel hard in a certain place (assuming your a guy), then you sir are probably gay.
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If you're a woman and you like it, you're probably a lesbian and should make us a lesbian porno.

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OH GOD I'M GAY IT STOPPED GIVING ME A BONER FUCK.
 

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its all how you were raised. Its a stage in psychosexual develepment that some dont get past. Most people are stuck at lesser stages, you should consider yourself lucky.
 
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If you claim to be a woman, then it would essentially be normal for you to not be interested in sex. Not a lot of women are, to be honest; that's from my experience of being around girls/women anyway...

People who are interested in sex are either the ones looking to actually have a planned pregnancy (y'know, that normal, sensible thing called "having a family") or the ones who get hooked on it because "it's oh-so nice and relaxing to do"... it usually occurs in males, maybe because of testosterone that makes them want sex more? I'm honestly not too sure; I'm not a biology expert.
 
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