How do you spend 2009 Valentine's Day with him or her?

[BakuFunn]

Hah, some girl i had liked had to tell me that she liked me a lot, but not in that way. :'(
(laughs of depressing matters)
She actually offered before to actually go out with me, but I told her she wasn't obligated to do so.
lol, i am an idjit. Did I do the right thing?

I'll probably give her chocolates on Valentine's Day,
creating awkwardness and hoping she won't remind me about before...

lol, wish me luck, friends...

 

[Raki]

damn from what ive heard
u lot are a couple of ladys men compared to me
i dont have a GF
but there IS a girl that i like in school
and the prom is coming up
so what do i do
i don't even know if she even knows me
so any pointers for a NOOB at dating?
i have her MSN if that matters

well - now that valentin's day is ante portas and your prom party is coming as well you have so many chances to ask her to go out with you

you could ask her to go to the prom party with you...or if she wants to have some fun (not THAT kind of fun, if perverts reading this understand me ;D) with you on valentins day...now is a perfect time! you just need to overcome your shyness...and don't act too shy if you talk to her..don't let her think you are a loser

well - dunno what I'll doing haven't planned anything with my gf, but I'm always acting out of the moment

 

[Hadrian]

Well this year this is our plan:

Give her present (still need to get her ring size)
Pizza Hut
drinky winkys at some pub
See Friday 13th at cinema (if word of mouth is good)
More drinky winkys at some pub
Check into hotel and do sex related some stuff.
Sleep

 

[Tozarian]

talk on the phone

 

[Golfman560]

...
Pizza Hut
...

Thats a present in itself! My god that pizza is so damn good.

I'm still not sure what were doing, probably going to a party or something since its a Friday or Saturday (I still haven't checked what day it is)

 

[juggernaut911]

I'm gonna be on a bus getting deported... wait. I mean to New Mexico for the 3 day weekend. She's on my bus. Shwing

 

[tinymonkeyt]

Perhaps I could find some fun there

....i.e. Korean BBQ and Hot Pot...

asian food ftw!
have you tried that ..hmm like tofu thing? its like tofu in this black bowl thing (its metal and really hot) and you like put in eggs (raw) and mix it all around.

anyway. good luck guys.

and a tip to all the guys:
not all girls want something super fancy or expensive.
im the kind of girl who would be very happy with something simple, but means a lot more than a 50$ dinner or 100$ necklace.
and im sure many of you have gf's who think the same.
we're not expecting a lot.
just something from the bottom of your heart
and at least a simple "i love you" :3
write a poem, sing a song, make up a dance.
as long as it shows affection.
hope that helps.
p.s. being sincere is TOTALLY different from being cheap though. be sure to know the diff ;]

 

[skyman113]

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[Leon1977]

give my wife flowers and take her to some place where we haven't been before.
probably a simple dinner and a stroll along the boardwalk..

 

[fengfeng]

you have more than one? o.O

hi, tinymonkeyt, To tell you the truth, I only have one deep loved girl. I sorry that I have to cut "s' in my last post" my girls".

So chocolate, flows, BBQ may be you guys dating ways spending with your GY/ BY in this valentine's day. But if I still do so this year, it will be not new anymore. So I pick out this idea which refers video game this year.( I just bought a new Wii IN Xmas). ( I hate to go out and wander the whole day but carrying bags on my full hands back)

Yeah, Guitar Hero may be another entertaining way for this day for we both are Nintendo Wii Fans.

 

[BORTZ]

eh i like a girl. Really, looking back at past gfs, i could ask for more. shes everything ive wanted in past relationships, but none of the bad bad qualities the other ones had. ill prolly make her a card and buy her so chocolate. eh and tell her shes awesome.

 

[Densetsu]

Perhaps I could find some fun there

....i.e. Korean BBQ and Hot Pot...asian food ftw!
have you tried that ..hmm like tofu thing? its like tofu in this black bowl thing (its metal and really hot) and you like put in eggs (raw) and mix it all around.You mean sukiyaki? I love that stuff!

QUOTE(mthrnite @ Feb 4 2009, 08:00 AM)

I'm angling for the one that got away at the moment. If all goes well, Valentines day will be when I reel her in.

Best of luck to you

As for me, my girlfriend isn't much of a gamer, but she likes to watch me play if the game has a storyline (she loves watching the plot develop when I play the Resident Evil or Metal Gear Solid series). She's studying in New York, and I'm in California, but I'm going to fly to NY the week of Valentine's. I'm going to do all the shopping, dishes, laundry and cooking for her the entire time I'm there so she has more time to study. I'm also planning to wake up earlier than her every morning, turn on the space heater in the bathroom, turn on the hot water so that the bathroom is all warm and steamy for her when she wakes up (since her apartment is freezing in the morning), and while she's showering for school I'm going to make her breakfast, warm up the car, shovel snow out of the driveway if needed, and drive her to school and pick her up. Oh, and I ordered a dozen chocolate-dipped strawberries in a red velvet heart box to be delivered to her class the day of Valentines, and made reservations for two to a cheese fondue restaurant for that night. For dessert they serve tiny cakes, cookies and fruits to dip into a pot of melted chocolate.

I'm gonna get me some

 

[BakuFunn]

Haha, you make everyone else look bad

But really, you are like the perfect guy, aren't you?


I'm still contemplating whether i should still chase this girl, who "likes me a lot but just not in that way"
I'm sad.

 

[Densetsu]

Haha, you make everyone else look bad

Well, since she started medical school and moved to the East Coast, I only see her 2-3 times a year now when she comes home for the holidays, spring break, summer, etc. And I'll only be doing that for a week--I wouldn't do that for her every day

But really, you are like the perfect guy, aren't you?Far from it, I'm normally a slob when I'm with her, but like I said it's only for a short amount of time. She's definitely a keeper!

QUOTE(BakuFunn @ Feb 4 2009, 10:05 PM)

I'm still contemplating whether i should still chase this girl, who "likes me a lot but just not in that way"
I'm sad.

In high school one of my male friends really liked another one of my female friends. As time went on and his feelings for her got really strong, she found out about it, but she said that she didn't like him back in that way. She had talks with all of her female friends and they all told me the same thing when I tried to do reconnaissance for him. Then I talked to her directly and asked her if she really didn't like him back. She told me that she really only wanted to be friends with him, and that was final. So I told him what she said and that he should just stop pursuing her. It was the worst piece of advice I've ever given a friend. Of course, he couldn't just stop feeling what he was feeling for her, and he continued to talk to her and was even more open about his feelings for her. Eventually she started to like him back, and then they started hanging out alone, then dating, and now they're happily married.

I'm really happy for them, but I still remember that one time I told him not to pursue her because it was no use. Had he listened to me, I don't know if they'd be married now. All I'm saying is, don't be discouraged just because a girl says "I like you but not in that way." Just be persistent without being a stalker or being too pushy, and give it time.

*EDIT*
And don't be all moody around her when she's not giving you the attention you want. Girls hate moody emo little bitches.

 

[fengfeng]

man! you are a really man,Densetsu3000. I probly fell in love with you if I am a girl

I have never know there are so many ways you can spend with your lovers in VD. But one thing is the same, and that is "If I know what love is, it is because of you", are you?

oh, man. MY GF is complaining how difficult the MARIO CARD is. I should show her how to handle the steer wheel for Wii well now....

 

[Densetsu]

man! you are a really man,Densetsu3000. I probly fell in love with you if I am a girl

I have never know there are so many ways you can spend with your lovers in VD. But one thing is the same, and that is "If I know what love is, it is because of you", are you?

oh, man. MY GF are complaining how difficult the MARIO CARD is. I should show her how to handle the steer wheel for Wii well now....

Sorry, but I'm taken

I think that tinymonkeyt gave some really simple, but very good advice. There's no need to spend money, just do a bunch of small things for her that you normally don't do.

Hell, I think playing videogames with your girlfriend is awesome. I only wish my girlfriend had the hand-eye coordination to hang with me in a game of Mario Kart

Also, sending the chocolate-covered strawberries in a red velvet heart box to my girlfriend's class does two things: (1) it shows her male classmates that they'd better back the f*ck off, and (2) it makes all her female classmates jealous of her and makes her feel good

Oh, and it does a third thing...it gets me some

 

[xoinx]

As for me, my girlfriend isn't much of a gamer, but she likes to watch me play if the game has a storyline (she loves watching the plot develop when I play the Resident Evil or Metal Gear Solid series). She's studying in New York, and I'm in California, but I'm going to fly to NY the week of Valentine's. I'm going to do all the shopping, dishes, laundry and cooking for her the entire time I'm there so she has more time to study. I'm also planning to wake up earlier than her every morning, turn on the space heater in the bathroom, turn on the hot water so that the bathroom is all warm and steamy for her when she wakes up (since her apartment is freezing in the morning), and while she's showering for school I'm going to make her breakfast, warm up the car, shovel snow out of the driveway if needed, and drive her to school and pick her up. Oh, and I ordered a dozen chocolate-dipped strawberries in a red velvet heart box to be delivered to her class the day of Valentines, and made reservations for two to a cheese fondue restaurant for that night. For dessert they serve tiny cakes, cookies and fruits to dip into a pot of melted chocolate.

I'm gonna get me some

Haha, that's sweet man!

I decided to like try my hand at making some chocolate truffles for my girl this year... well, I would have hand delivered them to her school too if it wasn't a Sat haha... This Valentine's pretty important for us cos I'd be go abroad to study so this would probably be like our only one for the next 4 years :S

and I probably won't be able to get any... she'd beat the hell out of my if I tried anything funny LOL

 

[Densetsu]

Haha, that's sweet man!

I decided to like try my hand at making some chocolate truffles for my girl this year... well, I would have hand delivered them to her school too if it wasn't a Sat haha... This Valentine's pretty important for us cos I'd be go abroad to study so this would probably be like our only one for the next 4 years :S

and I probably won't be able to get any... she'd beat the hell out of my if I tried anything funny LOL

I think making chocolate truffles beats having chocolate-covered strawberries sent to your girlfriend, but since I have no skills, I had no choice

How long have you been with her? If you've just started dating, I'd understand not getting any, but if you're making chocolate truffles for her and you've been together for a long time, I think that deserves getting some. Besides, if it'll be your last Valentine's Day with her for a while, you guys should get some from each other!

Hope your Valentine's day is a special one!

 

[xoinx]

I think making chocolate truffles beats having chocolate-covered strawberries sent to your girlfriend, but since I have no skills, I had no choice

How long have you been with her? If you've just started dating, I'd understand not getting any, but if you're making chocolate truffles for her and you've been together for a long time, I think that deserves getting some. Besides, if it'll be your last Valentine's Day with her for a while, you guys should get some from each other!haha, well we've been together for more than a year, though we've know each other for almost 8 years now haha... we took quite a big round to get together

QUOTE(Densetsu3000 @ Feb 5 2009, 06:02 PM) Hope your Valentine's day is a special one!

Well, you can call us pretty conservative I guess... well, you can't rush all good things right? Haha... just waiting for that one perfect moment

 

[OSW]

Shit.. I started dating a girl a week and a half before Valentines..

Oh man, that sucks balls. I had about the same time with my gf (or maybe an extra week?) right when i started uni, damn annoying pressure.

The gf is away this year so i cant really do much lol, but still the pressure will be on to have something ready for her return.

Any advice for what I can do for her return?... BTW this will be combined with 1 year... ... i'm in the shit now.