Grooming is also teachers talking to kindergartners about sex
If we're talking about gender (which I'd assume it is, considering where talking about trans) then no. If I say "their pronouns are they/them" in front of kindergartners, that's not grooming.
Grooming is also teachers taking kids to drag queen shows
And also no. you don't just get to try to change a meaning of a word.
Second, your using "kid" which when you say that, makes me think a 7-12. The situation your talking about refers to a 16 year old. At least name the age.
thirdly. I feel like this is a red hearing?
there's a lot of information lacking, it's a bit... suspicious
1.We only hear what the dad says.
It's rather strange... That we're focusing on the father and not the kid.... if this was a 'normal' news story, you'd focus on the person that happened to. "Son speaks out" is more powerful than "dad speaks out"
2. tracing the story as far as I can possibly go.
It seems that within the chain of telephone (or being more sensationalist) it got changed from "Father suspects teacher" to "teacher is a child predator"
3.Again lack of information which is pretty concerning. I find it odd that the teacher in question wasn't at least somewhat named? Even a little? Because students don't just interact with all teachers, it's just a select group of them usually.
4.. the cover story
One other issue I'm noticing is the framing is... narrative driven?
"Terwogt said his son initially told him that he was going to record a food contest."
First off, recording a food contest? What kind? eating? or display? It's rather extremely vague. But the part that catches my eye the most is this:
"He said he even texted his son to check on him. He said his son told him that they were still recording and he was safe."
the two had contact with each other. and given by the fact the whole situation ends by 3am. This is clearly after school hours. Why does that matter? Well, if something was truly wrong, that wasn't supposed to happen, wouldn't the teen had said something earlier??? that's 10+ hours of not... saying anything.
5th. a lot more holes
I have to repeat that he got home super late at 3am. That's over 10 hours. Schools end by 3pm. Drag shows are only 40-60 minutes. Sure we can assume a driving time of perhaps an hour or two. to make 4 hours of total driving. But that still doesn't add up. Where is all that other time spent?
Already if it's kinda clear from what I established. Things aren't exactly lining up, and I'm getting a sense the teen was lying to his dad. But also too... if we assumed a safety problem for just a second (pretending that the teens phone was compromised)
We don't get... any questions from the parent to the son?????????
Like, teen just goes to bed at 3am, no questions from the parent??? Nothing? If I was that age, and that late, my mother would be all over my ass asking a trillion fucking questions of where the hell I had been.
Take aways:
1. It feels like the Republican party is latching onto this one thing as red hearing. (one bad situation, to call the rest of a group evil) Because there's only this one case that's ever pointed to, which was back in 2019. And you think in a social media age that the teen would maybe make a twitter account? And maybe go on talking about how bad it was? And that being person interviewed?
hell google maps is a thing, or he could of called the police....
1.5 the time gap is also waaay too big. 12 hours. If we assume the son got out of school at 3pm. that's 12 hours of events not explained. The trip cannot consist just "drag show" since drag shows are about 40-60 minutes. Drag shows also are more commonly sfw, than nsfw.
2. if the situation truly happened the way as described, (I kinda have my doubts, but I'll give benefit of the doubt, only out of just, the absurd lack of information relating to this) then the teacher can go fuck off, they don't represent LGBTQ people. But that doesn't make LGBTQ groomers. Since even with that situation, it doesn't fit the definition of "grooming" they were in public. not secluded, and no sexual acts were done with any proven evidence. Which, wouldn't the teen tell his dad something within 3 years?
3. If anything the Republican party has every reason to use this as a distraction tactic.
https://slate.com/news-and-politics...ts-talk-about-republicans-and-sex-crimes.html
Since a surprising amount of them have been found to actually be pedophiles, not just alleged, but actual evidence to the claim.