Ah....Bullies

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Hey, Tempers.

Recently I have been getting bullied in school again.
It does not feel good. I have kids accusing me of shit just to piss me off. I really don't like it. Hurt's my feeling, it really does. Especially when it happens in class. If I make a big fuss about it I bring attention to myself, which I hate. If I ignore it I end up needing to play with my sticky tack violently to get the mad outta me.
A few day's ago I got suspended for punching somebody in the face, which ultimately got my face punched in, hard. It really hurt.

It doesn't help that my teacher makes snarky comments at me. Like I ask a question she says "Urg!! Geoff!!! you're gonna annoy me to the point where i'm going to smack you" I know she is just kidding, but the whole class laughs and it embarrasses me. People tell me to mind my own business, When they get into my business!!

It does not help having this tagged onto school stress about work and shit.

Today I realized one of my best is...well...I don't like saying the word so I will give the most easiest expression

Daddy issues, Dresses sexy, Hooks up with many guys

Hope you can guess what I am implying.

I don't like being associated with girls like that. It just makes me look bad.

So, I have been avoiding her. Yeah

So....I am just hoping the Bullies leave me alone.

~iFish
 

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report to the principal that you are being bullied, and second, ask your teacher not to joke about you if you are embarrassed.

i dont understand where you are going with the "daddy issues" .....
 

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What? Bullies? I hate them. I used to be picked on when I went to public school. Just for wearing glasses, being Asian and not dressing "cool". I became depressed because I couldn't do anything because I was weak. Some kids need to grow the f' up. I hope you're okay. But, seriously. You do need to report it to the principal, or else - this will keep going on. :/
 

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if your not one of them, than don't worry about it. let other people believe what they want. anyone who says these things about someone they don't know isn't someone you should care to be associated with anyway.
 

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You realized one of your close friends is a whore? So you avoid her? Some friend you are, iFish. Come on now.
 

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Learn a martial art, then let the rampage begin...
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or just tell me what school and i'll pay them a visit
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You know, there are times when I want to smack you for your questions, too.


As for daddy-issues girl: are you older than her? Because that could be useful...
 

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You just have to chill. I know it's hard, and I know you think that you are pretty calm - everyone does at your age, but you're just not...

If you're calm, they mock you less, you don't fight back so it lasts not nearly as long, your feelings don't get hurt so it doesn't elevate into violence. Also, for your teacher(s), he/she/they won't be bugged by you if you don't bug them - they're people too (for whatever reason, people have this idea of authority figures that they should be perfect and non-judgmental in any way).

Also - you're avoiding a good friend because she's being sexually promiscuous? And you don't want to associate with her because it makes you look bad? Don't be a fucking prude. If she has issues, help her out. If she's just indulging in positive feelings, get over it.

I think that when you get out of school for a few years, you'll realize how...."stupid" what you're saying sounds. You care WAY too much about social things - it's ok to be at the bottom of the ladder - just enjoy yourself while you're doing it.
 

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Really sucks man, its a tough situation to be in. There isn't really much you can do.

Sure, we can tell you to go to the principal, but we all know that probably wouldn't end well, if these are the kids who don't care about fighting in school.

You can talk to your teacher though about the comments she makes. Just talk to her after class, say something along the lines of "I realize you're joking, but I would really prefer if you didn't say such and such when I asked a question, I already have a hard time speaking out in class and this makes it more difficult." That only works if you're a quiet kid. And if you are, your teacher will be more than apologetic and leave it alone from then on. If not, she risks you going above her head to complain to the principal about her.

If you're not a quiet kid in class, and you occasionally make off topic comments, jokes, etc, you can still talk to her, but also mind what you say. Maybe don't bring so much attention to yourself if you're getting bullied currently. Don't change who you are as a person, just be mindful of what you say. You might be saying some things that bug others and not even realize it.

As for your friend, do you have feelings for her? From the sounds of it, you like her a lot. And if so, thats a tough one. Maybe now is the time to just be her friend, and give her some tips on who she should be seeing, hanging out with. Just be someone to talk to and be there to make sure she doesn't make any huge decisions. I know high school interpretations of what is going on can make things seem a lot worse. But as I have gotten older, I have realized that you can't always get mad at people for being who they want to be. It is naive to think you can change someone; you have to like them for who they are. Or not like them. Friends and lovers come and go, you're young.

High school can be tough, but just remember that everyone gets bullied. I was pretty popular in high school, and even I had to deal with my share of bullying. Just know you're not alone, and things get better. Bullies will always be there, but you wont always be their target. Don't give them the satisfaction of responding. Show that sticky tack who is boss. Soon enough, all this shit will be behind you, and life really does get better after highschool.
 

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Bullies.....been there many times, for me it was fun times though
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I used to move around alot when my mum divorced my asshole of a father ended up in a few different schools so it was the usual "let's pick on the new kid" happened all the way up to secondary school which is the first school I've seen through to the end
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again during school I looked.....well I wasn't the best looking I wasn't the worst and people would have put me in the "geek/nerd" catagory even so I was a dark horse
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great at sports and physically sound so for me bullies were a simple case of putting them on there backside when they start.

Just man up abit, learn some self defence and put some muscle on those bones of yours
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As for your teachers, they shouldn't make remarks like that to their students if it bothers you report it to the head.

Oh yeah as for your friend:
Don't be a dick and avoid her.
If she's being a whore you need to be as you say you are a "best friend", tell her she's being a whore and she needs to stop it and that she's worth more.
If she turns around and starts having ago at you for sticking your nose in e.t.c. and that she knows what she's doing then she isn't the frind you think she is.
Being a best friend means you can be brutally honest with someone even if it hurts, you'll be there to see it through the bad times.
 

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Vulpes Abnocto said:
You know, there are times when I want to smack you for your questions, too.


As for daddy-issues girl: are you older than her? Because that could be useful...

This really helps him, I'm sure.
 

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I'm basically nonexistent in the eyes of most of the kids in my school, so I don't get bullied. But I'm glad I'm heading to university next year anyway. Hopefully that's the case with you(about to head to college)? I never thought anyone was bullied in my school until I heard that there was a facebook group created to insult some girl at my school, who I thought no one even knew. Kids are messed up, actually, people are messed up.
 

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science said:
Vulpes Abnocto said:
You know, there are times when I want to smack you for your questions, too.


As for daddy-issues girl: are you older than her? Because that could be useful...

This really helps him, I'm sure.

I'm sure that pointing it out helps him too
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Don't listen to the people telling you to try and kick some ass. Thats the worst thing you could do in this situation.
 

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Just letting you know, She does not really have at home problems. It was just a silly explanation. hehe.

I wouldn't say I'm the most silent kid. I will make the odd remark once in a blue moon. But I don't really talk to other students. Besides the one friend in that class.

Her and I have been good friends since around grade 5.

Tomorrow I will talk to my teacher. But the problems don't happen as much in class as at my locker. they're at both sides of me. But I will talk to Scott about it (No, Not the temper. The guy who runs the "Planning Room")

The Planning Room is where you go to talk to somebody and try to make a plan on how to go straight. Could help with anything, Drug addictions, Class work. Bullies.... But I normally would only go when it get's bad. I guess I better go tomorrow. better soon than sorry.

Will tell you how it goes.

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EDIT: Science. I didn't plan to. haha

I'm really not strong.
 

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Bullies are no life kids. They don't have an internet life or social life to have to act like they're stronger than everyone else when in reality, they are just cowardly douchefags. Ignore them. If you don't do anything to them, they won't have anything to use against you unless they lie. If they do, you should be able to prove them wrong.
 

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monkat said:
science said:
Vulpes Abnocto said:
You know, there are times when I want to smack you for your questions, too.


As for daddy-issues girl: are you older than her? Because that could be useful...

This really helps him, I'm sure.

I'm sure that pointing it out helps him too
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Trying to defend iFish from people who are ignoring a serious thread and posting troll remarks? Especially when they are mods and should at least give their title some respect? Yeah, sorry, what was I thinking.
 

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iFish said:
Just letting you know, She does not really have at home problems. It was just a silly explanation. hehe.

I wouldn't say I'm the most silent kid. I will make the odd remark once in a blue moon. But I don't really talk to other students. Besides the one friend in that class.

Her and I have been good friends since around grade 5.

Tomorrow I will talk to my teacher. But the problems don't happen as much in class as at my locker. they're at both sides of me. But I will talk to Scott about it (No, Not the temper. The guy who runs the "Planning Room")

The Planning Room is where you go to talk to somebody and try to make a plan on how to go straight. Could help with anything, Drug addictions, Class work. Bullies.... But I normally would only go when it get's bad. I guess I better go tomorrow. better soon than sorry.

Will tell you how it goes.

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EDIT: Science. I didn't plan to. haha

I'm really not strong.

Good for you, it takes a lot of courage to talk to someone. Hope everything works out well for you.
 

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