Part1:
I would like to be able to decide if we show or hide the fact that we are friend with someone else on HIS page.
For example, my brother want me to create a facebook account so I can see my nephew pictures he is posting there.
I don't want my other family member to know that I have an account, I don't want them to ask me as friend (which I'll reject).
So, I would like to have my brother as friend, but that my name doesn't appear on my brother's profile as his friend.
Setting "hidden" option for search engine, but still being listed on other user's profile page is completely dumb.
Same for comments for example. Posting a comment on a picture/blog, that either my name or my entire comment is not shown to specific peoples.
I think we can decide that on our OWN profile, but not on other user's profiles.
I would like a more controllable privacy setting.
PS: Yeah, I know, I can just create a fake account name, but I won't do that either. I prefer not having one at all.
being able to add gbatemp friend+online friends+my brother, but not being shown by other friend of friend, that's what I want a social network to be
Part2:
I don't like abusive contract.