Hacking R4i sdhc v2.20t wont let me upgrade please look

[DollyPlurtastic]

i want to make this clear so i can get help...im sorry everyone


so i have this card and it says it will support 3ds v3.0

http://www.r4sdhc.com/r4tsdhc1.asp

i format...load the kernal...then put it in my old dsi v1.3 ....it starts up fine. i see "loading" then it loads the card....then i go into config and try to press the update button but there is no update button

i click on "turn on update" then it says

" please restore flash.r4i to /r4imenu to enable updating "

the kernal has flash.r4i in that folder ...but after its in the ds i check the folder again and the flash file is missing... i reload the kernal with the flash.r4i ...and the file gets deleted again...

for some reason it keeps getting deleted and im unable to update my card


.im very sorry everyone...i just want this to work for my brothers birthday!!!!! im soo sorry this is driving me crazy

 

[Quincy]

Let's start off by saying that it is kind of rude to PM people with a link to a thread, out of random.

Secondly: Did you follow the instructions?

Edit: Instructions for updating the bootloader are nowhere to be found. I am starting to doubt that the card is legit..

 

[DollyPlurtastic]

The instructions are on that link..
. The Chinese has a doc I followed it completely how it says.. I did everything right I just can't get whatever its deleting the flash to stop