Problem with my mother..

[Ducky]

2 days ago my mother went on a vacation , for the weekend .
She cleaned the house and made sure we have a good feeling in the house..
Now.. My mother always told us she hopes we'll have a good weekend and we'll all feel great and wont be sad and lonely..
anyway i'm 14 , bro 19 , 2nd bro 24.

I called her on the first day and asked how it is all going and how everything is..
on the second day I didn't call but she called me.
Appearntly she called both of my brothers too and they didnt answer.

We arranged the work so that I do some things and my 24 year old brother does other , for that my 19 brother couldn't help , he wasn't at home.
My 24 years old brother is really not responsible.. and didn't do what he needed untill my mom came.
The house seemed dirty..
My mother came in and got a bit mad at me and my brother.. I felt bad so I came talking to her..

She bursted into tears telling me that the whole weekend nobody called her and she was all lonely..
I explained that I tried not to call so she'll think or know were having a good time..
While she was in bed and trying to sleep , I apologized to her and talked to her a bit . Then kissed her goodnight..


.. Now I feel a need to do something to cheer her up..
My room is already clean and I washed the remaining dishes..
The whole house is clean..

Suggestions?

 

[SpongeFreak52]

Maybe you should stop triple-posting threads and buy her some flowers. xD

 

[Ducky]

PC Got stuck , Sorry you may delete the other topics I re-posted by accident.

 

[p1ngpong]

Wow you should tell you mom to calm down a bit, no offence!

You talked to her on both days, she should have just been enjoying her time away, no waiting for people to call her!


Buy her a cell phone!

 

[Ducky]

Serously guys I cant take a joke right now.. its really hard for me and I need to do something.. if you cant post anything that meets these circumstances , i'd be very much more pleased to not hear your opinion.

 

[War]

Hm... well, just tell her you're really sorry, and that you just didn't want to seem needy and like you needed her to come back, because that would have made her have a bad time and worry about you.

 

[Shabadage]

Don't worry man, it's a normal parent thing. The kids are growing up and leaving the nest; you guys don't need your mom around 24/7 and that's sad for parents; and is a big adjustment. The best thing you can do is to be a decent person, and make your mom proud she raised a good human being.

cleaning up the house a bit before she wakes up would probably be a nice surprise though!

 

[kevenka]

Yea, probably just doing considerate things everyday is better than giving her one special day. Shows you care about her and willing to put a bit more effort to please her

(If you do want to do a special thing, we can't suggest much b/c ussually the best things are the most thoughtful one that only you know your mother will appreciate; from driving her to dinner to giving her a hug every once and a while

 

[Ducky]

keven , you were right.. I was about to make her a dinner or something.. she understood that and told me she just wants me to move on and remember that. Thanks.