I dont believe in Valentine's Day. I love someone everyday and I give a gift at any days any months I want. The Valentine's Day is ridiclous and weird. I have see many people like that in good mood for Valentine's day then they become dog eat dog world later. RIDICULOUS! Its FALSE!
I know what you mean, it was a "holiday" created by Hallmark just as an excuse to generate more revenue. I see it like going to church. Some people go on Sunday and act like a saint on that one day, and then the rest of the week they're total a-holes. Some people treat their significant other like their world on V-day, but then the rest of the year they're arguing with each other. Also for the holidays, people tend to be more charitable and will donate to various organizations, but on a normal day wouldn't even give a homeless person the time of day. But it depends on the person I guess. Of course, I don't love my girlfriend any more on V-day or any less on any other day of the year. It's just a good excuse for me to fly out to NY to visit her, wine her and dine her since I don't see her much any other time of the year. And I haven't spent any money on Hallmark products
BiscuitBee said:
Mmmm sukiyaki. I'm PRETTY sure that I had that the last time I was in California, just a little bit more cooked. A friend took me to a Japanese restaurant near Irvine (I think?) and it was delicious! Also, mango pudding. I forget where that was, though. Some Asian place with sticky pictures on the second floor!
Now that's a Valentine's date: Sukiyaki, Mango Pudding dessert, sticky pictures
LOVE mango pudding! But isn't that a Thai dessert? What restaurant did you go to that serves sukiyaki
and mango pudding? Interesting!
Sukiyaki, mango pudding and sticky pictures...that actually sounds like a typical Asian-American date!
QUOTE(BakuFunn @ Feb 5 2009, 02:11 PM)
Wow, thanks.
You give really good advice.
The girl keeps teasing me about how im moody, and I tried not be be like that. Even though this semester we don't have any classes together, we still see each other. During my lunch today, i sat with some other people selling valentine's bears and dogs in my school. They tried to convince me to buy one for her, but i didnt have enough money
After school, for the first time in a week or two, she finally spent some actual time alone with me. We went to some stores, got food, walked around and stuff, talking all the way. I even followed her into the train (The train station is a block away from my home) and instead of talking to her other friends (What she usually does) she paid attention to me. I was really happy and stuff, and I only left when I was not allowed to get onto the LIRR. Then i got back on the train and went home.
A lot of my friends told me to not give up, and to keep pursuing her. I was not sure myself, and one person told me to choose from heart and mind. Haha. As myself, i do not really have that much confidence. I keep thinking that she could get another guy easier. After asking some friends, one person told me a backstory, and how her last relationship was bad, resulting her to be reluctant to get into another one. I am one of her great friends, and even after her telling me the feeling is not mutual, we are still great friends. Even though i hope my unrequited love is returned, I am still sad because of my lack of confidence.
That story seems just like my situation, except no one actually tole me to give up. The only thing that told me to give up is my mind and it's lack of confidence...
You give great advice, thanks.
