Brehhhh you bricked... you bricked real hard. The 3DS guide has warnings about this all over the place.
IF you still have the NANDmin.bin file in the files9 folder of the sd card then you can pay someone to hardmode9 it for you. Go here for list of trusted ppl: https://gbatemp.net/threads/list-of-hardmod-installers-by-region.414224/
Will prob cost $65-100.
Good luck.
Thanks man! I'd like to learn how to do it myself, but I'm just gonna let it go for a while, I don't play my 2ds as much as I used to, and I think I messed up somewhere around the steps i mentioned. I do appreciate your suggestions though