Do you feel desperately lonely?

[Rogue Trader]

Nah, i'm awesome.

My friend McNally has spent the last year chasing women to no avail though.....

 

[coolbho3000]

If you are actually looking for a partner then what they look like will eventually become irrelevant. Just because someone of the opposite sex makes your knees go week doesn't make them a good prospective girlfriend. It's just called infatution and dies out very quickly leaving you with what? Someone you don't have a lot in common with and can't have endless coversations or spend a lot of time with.

Just get to know heaps of girls as you would any mates. One will eventually click as "Hey! I would actually like to spend a lot of time with this person."

Ignore infatuation. It usually goes knowhere and as is the case with a lot of us blokes leaves us looking like a brainless mute.

It's not that simple. It's really hard to ignore.

See http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Limerence. I'm still not over my last one, and that started about a year ago.

It pretty much kills. Especially when your chances are shot. You just can't get her out of your mind, no matter how hard you try, and a paradox arises: you want to keep feeling that way and you want to stop feeling that way. It leaves you feeling one way one minute and another way the next. This continues relentlessly, and you can't stop it. There is no easy answer.

The worst part of it is seeing her, and watching her pass, not even noticing you. And there is nothing you can do.

 

[amptor]

Why does TheSpade pop in my mind whenever I see this thread?

 

[Infinite Zero]

no. im desperately broke

 

[BoxShot]

Lonely = a bit
Desperately lonely = not really

 

[redact]

no, i get by with a little help from my 'temp
mmm, gonna try with a little help from my 'temp

 

[Raika]

I don't give a damn. I've always been lonely, and I like being lonely. It really helps me to focus my thoughts and stay calm and peaceful.

 

[Phoenix Goddess]

Not desperately lonely, but it can get pretty damn lonely sometimes. Thankfully, I have bellydancing and video games to keep from getting depressed.

 

[Njrg]

Desperately ronery?

So I'm desperate to be ronery?

 

[coolbho3000]

no. im desperately broke

I'll trade you. :yayds:

 

[syko5150]

nope i never feel lonely its actually the opposite for me, at times i feel smothered and need to be alone...i'm getting married really soon but her and i have been living together for the last 6 years and i just need my space sometimes.

 

[Infinite Zero]

no. im desperately broke

I'll trade you.

haha WTH

 

[jalaneme]

i wish i WAS lonely, having a boyfriend is not everything like people think.

 

[giratina16]

i wish i WAS lonely, having a boyfriend is not everything like people think.

Dump him then.

 

[outgum]

i know what you mean.... theres this girl i really like.... but im to scared that if i bring it up it will ruin our friendship.... she makes me feel... amazing, and all sorts, and i dont want to lose it i guess....

Rawr! i hate myself

 

[naglaro00]

Nope.
The only times I get lonely is when I get a failing mark in English class(which will never happen)

 

[scrtmstr]

I feel lonely sometimes. Just hate it when i see a lot of people around me who have girlfriends, and i don't. It's been almost a year since I had my last girlfriend (was great though) but i'm ready for a new one.

I'm also to shy and don't go out much (yet, bit scared still 'cause of experiences), but the girl I like isn't going out as well, so i've got some problems

 

[wessel261]

I voted sometimes
When I think of my ex who broke up with me I feel very lonely (we're still friends, but it's not the same)
When I'm in class, teaching or gaming I'm distracted enough not to feel lonely

 

[ProtoKun7]

Nope! Not even a little.

When my girlfriend is around, I naturally feel like I'm with someone.

When she's not, I am also happy.
Maybe because you actually have one.

QUOTE(Raika @ May 10 2010, 06:35 AM) I don't give a damn. I've always been lonely, and I like being lonely. It really helps me to focus my thoughts and stay calm and peaceful.

Lonely isn't quite the same as alone, but I'm like you in that respect.

 

[logical thinker]

So, do you? If you don't know what I'm talking about, I mean do you feel sad for not having a girlfriend (or boyfriend in some cases

) or do you just don't give a damn?

I sometimes feel lonely. There's 4 girls I like ATM, and I'm too fucking shy to ask them out (all at once!

), so I kind of feel lonely. But then again, I have you guys to love

No, I don't feel desperately lonely. I just don't give a damn and I don't understand why you people keep suffering because of it.

Are you a teenager? Why don't you search for professional help (psychiatrist, psychologist and psychotherapist)? "By accident", I saw a pic of you in that tempers' pic topic and I agree with the person that commented your pic.

I am not sad for not having a gf, but currently I have someone who I want to live with.