Discuss dating/sex/girls in general

[Urza]

How many heroin addicts just thought they'd give heroin one quick try, just for the sake of experimentation ... ?

So you're comparing a highly physically addictive substance to trying new forms of sex?

How silly.

 

[Issac]

I guess it's up to the person in question if he or she will become an addict (in the sex part I mean... heroine is heroine

)

anyway.... this subject seems a little dry out... how about porn?
A lof ot people here in sweden (girls for the most part) consider porn to be as bad as cheating... they say "Looking at other girls nude on videos equals looking at other girls nude in real life, you fantisise about other girls maybe thinking about how it'd feel to do her.. therefore it's equal to cheating"...

Some other girls say "it's okay, it's just porn"...

What do you think?

 

[Bob Evil]

I think that some women think that, no matter what country you live in lol

 

[Urza]

anyway.... this subject seems a little dry out... how about porn?
A lof ot people here in sweden (girls for the most part) consider porn to be as bad as cheating... they say "Looking at other girls nude on videos equals looking at other girls nude in real life, you fantisise about other girls maybe thinking about how it'd feel to do her.. therefore it's equal to cheating"...

Some other girls say "it's okay, it's just porn"...

What do you think?

If she's going to tell you you're not allowed to watch porn, then you'd better get 24/7 access to her vagina.

 

[Anakir]

Have anyone had any experience with girlfriends asking if they're allowed to sleep with other girls?

By sleeping, do you mean literally sleeping? Or sex?

I'm going to take the literal meaning and tell what my girl said. She only allows one person, and only that one person. She knows I have a childhood friend. Not a childhood friend as in from grade school, but even before that. We actually knew each other since we were babies. When we were born. My parents and my childhood's parents are close friends. And so is my childhood friend and I. We talked about everything we possibly can about each other. We know each other so well there's no point in hiding things. I've slept with her (literal meaning, not sex) a lot of times already. My girl's okay with that as long as it's only her.

Surprisingly enough, she doesn't get jealous of her, but of other girls I talk to. I don't really see the logic in that, but I assume that it's because they've met a few times unlike my other friends she doesn't know.

I had sleep overs in the past at many of my friend's house because of problems I wanted to let out. My girl feels kind of insecure because of my past. But yeah, to get to the point, she only lets me sleep over at one person's house.

QUOTE(Issac @ Apr 28 2008, 02:38 PM) I guess it's up to the person in question if he or she will become an addict (in the sex part I mean... heroine is heroine

)

anyway.... this subject seems a little dry out... how about porn?
A lof ot people here in sweden (girls for the most part) consider porn to be as bad as cheating... they say "Looking at other girls nude on videos equals looking at other girls nude in real life, you fantisise about other girls maybe thinking about how it'd feel to do her.. therefore it's equal to cheating"...

Some other girls say "it's okay, it's just porn"...

What do you think?

Honestly, whether you believe me or not, I don't watch porn. I used to for a bit, but learned my lesson from viruses and such. I was a newb web browser back then. My girl trusts me that I don't watch it.

I have this little 'theory' which I use. It works for some people. So here's how it goes - Do you watch sports? If not, why? Some people say it's probably boring or they rather play the sport then watch. I'm basically like that, I don't need porn to survive, if anything, I got my girl for the real thing. (I hope she never reads this LOL) But in my opinion, I don't consider porn bad.

It's like how we find sex to be funny.. but in Africa, it's probably a common practice. They need the children to pass on their generations. But yeah, my girl said if she ever catches me watching/watched porn, I'm pretty much dead. lol.

 

[Urza]

Have anyone had any experience with girlfriends asking if they're allowed to sleep with other girls?

By sleeping, do you mean literally sleeping? Or sex?

I'm going to take the literal meaning and tell what my girl said. She only allows one person, and only that one person. She knows I have a childhood friend. Not a childhood friend as in from grade school, but even before that. We actually knew each other since we were babies. When we were born. My parents and my childhood's parents are close friends. And so is my childhood friend and I. We talked about everything we possibly can about each other. We know each other so well there's no point in hiding things. I've slept with her (literal meaning, not sex) a lot of times already. My girl's okay with that as long as it's only her.

Surprisingly enough, she doesn't get jealous of her, but of other girls I talk to. I don't really see the logic in that, but I assume that it's because they've met a few times unlike my other friends she doesn't know.

I had sleep overs in the past at many of my friend's house because of problems I wanted to let out. My girl feels kind of insecure because of my past. But yeah, to get to the point, she only lets me sleep over at one person's house.

Holy shit, you actually think he was referring to actual sleeping?

OH GEE SLEEPOVERS ARE SERIOUS BUSINESS

 

[Anakir]

Holy shit, you actually think he was referring to actual sleeping?

OH GEE SLEEPOVERS ARE SERIOUS BUSINESS

Thanks for making an interpretation sound like it was such a dumb post. But really, I'm pretty sure there are people who would find sleeping with the opposite gender (the literal meaning) to be quite offensive as well. Like I said, my girl would seriously be mad at me. She does a lot of stupid things when she's really mad at me. I wouldn't even know what she'd do if I did the other meaning of "sleeping".

 

[WeaponXxX]

Well we ( my company) make porn, the cat is out of the bag and to be honest many people use our products as a marital aid. We get several emails saying how porn helped save a marriage to how they learned how to be a better lover.

I am in no means sure how porn helps couples as what chicks really appreciates a shot to the face? But alas there are those out there who do.

My ex g/f loved to watch porn but she was also bi.

Porn has taught me to do some fun moves that chicks have really dug.

I really don't think porn is bad, I mean if you watch it too much... to where you prefer to j/o over sex then maybe you need to kill your cable line but I think porn in general is just fine for couples and singles to watch. Bottom line, porn is not cheating nor is it bad.

 

[Mangofett]

So was the FBI at your house under the suspicion of underage?

 

[OSW]

Have anyone had any experience with girlfriends asking if they're allowed to sleep with other girls?
How do you see on that question?
Do you find that as cheating, if they ask and it's with the same sex?

well, my girl kissed my other friend who is a girl.
i told her to stop but "it's just a girl!" she was drunk and still did it.
it pissed me off alot. later i got her to promise she won't do it again.

it's not as special if you share your someone with anyone else.