Did you get bullied in your school?
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yes and i still do im in year 8 i moved schools cuz it was too far away and then i got bullid at my new school so i moved then i got bullied even more then, so nowim at secondry school and still get builied twice a much so im just putting up with it
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Just noticed this.
I was picked on at school. It was rather horrible to be honest, I ended up loathing school.
Happily for me I ended up growing as a person and am currently at one of the best universities in the country.
I was picked on at school. It was rather horrible to be honest, I ended up loathing school.
Happily for me I ended up growing as a person and am currently at one of the best universities in the country.
Back in my youth bullying was still every bit as much an issue. Some thing never really change.
I wasn't bothered, but then I was known to be part of the 'army types' and we were known to have plenty of legally owned weapons, not pistols, but rifles. This is long before any of the crap that is normal in schools today though.
My son though has trouble with bullying issues occasionally. Your best defense, is to repeatedly report the offenders, never let up, generate a nasty file folder of complaints, make the problems out to be genuine problems, be willing to not accept it. Eventually staff WILL 'discuss' it with the offenders and that's how it's done. Find out all the other people that are being hassled, drag them to the office and make them log complaints too. Make it apparent it isn't just you complaining. My son saw to it that one problem was told knock it off or he lost his year. Try imagining doing a grade all over again. Yeah even bullies don't want to throw away a year.
Fighting solves nothing. Doing nothing of course solves nothing. And saying that reporting them is being a wimp (or use whatever label suits you) is no good is coping out.
If you don't want to confront the bullying at the official paperwork level, then get used to being bullied.
I wasn't bothered, but then I was known to be part of the 'army types' and we were known to have plenty of legally owned weapons, not pistols, but rifles. This is long before any of the crap that is normal in schools today though.
My son though has trouble with bullying issues occasionally. Your best defense, is to repeatedly report the offenders, never let up, generate a nasty file folder of complaints, make the problems out to be genuine problems, be willing to not accept it. Eventually staff WILL 'discuss' it with the offenders and that's how it's done. Find out all the other people that are being hassled, drag them to the office and make them log complaints too. Make it apparent it isn't just you complaining. My son saw to it that one problem was told knock it off or he lost his year. Try imagining doing a grade all over again. Yeah even bullies don't want to throw away a year.
Fighting solves nothing. Doing nothing of course solves nothing. And saying that reporting them is being a wimp (or use whatever label suits you) is no good is coping out.
If you don't want to confront the bullying at the official paperwork level, then get used to being bullied.
Obviously, I was bullied at school, bullies even have bullies. Why? Because many people are in denial these days, they have to point fingers and create one stereotype after another instead of being more rational. They hunger for authority instead of companionship.
It doesn't matter how crude you act because there is always someone who will surpass you and will bully you regardless of how intimidating you are. In that perspective no one can say they have not been bullied. It is merely a common event we go through starting from our adolescent childhood years in elementary school and our teenage years through middle school all the way up to college and even working in your job as an adult.
It doesn't matter how crude you act because there is always someone who will surpass you and will bully you regardless of how intimidating you are. In that perspective no one can say they have not been bullied. It is merely a common event we go through starting from our adolescent childhood years in elementary school and our teenage years through middle school all the way up to college and even working in your job as an adult.
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