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Sounds like you're looking for an arbitrator, not a mediator, but no big deal, ppl get them confused all the time.I really think an outside player needs to discuss with both sides to mediate, and be unbiased. This means disregarding all of the hate spam that has gone around, from myself as well. Both sides also should respect the decision of the mediator.
If this is the route both sides want to take, the only decision you need to agree on is who to select as your arbitrator. I'd offer my services, but again only if both sides are comfortable with me taking on that role. Quite honestly though, as much as I know about this situation, I don't think I know enough yet to make a fair decision, so I'd need to hear both sides of the story in full (privately so as to not inadvertently escalate the issue). TBH, I'm not even sure what decisions still need to be made (other than whether or not this thread should be closed) so only those involved can truly determine whether or not arbitration is really necessary.
On a side note, miigotu, I think you're showing a big improvement in terms of being less agressive. I didn't find your last post to be even the slightest bit harsh. Btw, do u prefer mugotu or miigotu?