I'd do a vid, but I'd have to grow my finger nails for a month to make it acceptable
kidding, of course.
Don't use plumbers flux or acid based flux. It's what we call "active" flux, and it will eat electronics and if you absolutely have to use such flux on electronics ever, you will find that the active flux no matter how cleaned off it looks will continue to eat away at the PCB/contacts etc long after you did the work. Bare minimum, get rosin core electronics solder, if you have access get a $4 tin of electronic paste flux (I've had my tin of flux for 8 years and I've only used about a third of it, and I use it quite often.)
---0Ohm resistor removal---
1. Heat soldering iron up.
2. heat one side of resistor and apply a small amount of rosin core solder (when applying solder, it goes into the place where the iron and the contact meet)
3. repeat on other side
4. if you did it right, your iron should be able to touch the solder on both sides of the resistor so you can remove it fairly simply by heating both ends at the same time.
---Wire prep (tinning?)---
5. Cut and strip wire to length (may want to save cutting for after it is soldered though).
- you can tin if you want, but it's not absolutely necessary, as it will tin in step 6 at basically the same time you solder it
---Wire installation---
6. hold wire in place (easier if you didn't cut it first, but try to do it/bend the excess in such a way that no force will be applied after it's soldered), heat wire and contact and apply rosin core solder (as above) so you get a nice shiny blob of solder on the contact that "wets" (kinda wraps around) to the wire and contact
If you have the right flux, you CAN pre-tin the exposed wire by putting a bit of solder on your iron tip and a bit of flux on the wire, but it's not absolutely necessary (basically just a good soldering habit). And remember, try not to hold the iron to the contacts on the PCB for more than 5 or so seconds, too much heat will travel up the circuit or you could also risk damaging the contact itself.
Hope that helps, you have the idea down pretty good - I just tried to simplify it a bit in case you don't have the right flux but do have a non-active flux cored solder.