My dad's passing within the next 3 days.

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My grandma died when I was very young, so I can't remember her at all, and she's the only relative that's died. I can't say I know how it feels...
Sorry for your loss
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my mom died of cancer a few years ago. i watched her slowly waste away over the course of 4 years. i know it doesn't seem like it now, and i didn't believe it then, but it gets easier. just keep the Faith and you'll be ok. my prayers are with you and your family.
 

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Reading this made me cry.

I'm really sorry for you. I can't imagine how you're feeling but he will allways be here right beside you. He's only gone if you forget him!
 

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Death is part of life and nobody can take away your memories.
Vain questions of what if won't alleviate the pain, time would.
Take a few days off to mourn him and when you start feeling a little better, put this difficult chapter aside and go on with your life.
 

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I'm really sorry for your father...I wish cancer wouldn't exist dammit....
but the only thing you can do now is walk forward....my sincerest condolences..this must be really hard to bear.
 

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Stupid cancer go to hell!
Why cant it not just leave us in peace and not take our loved family from us?
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Ive never lost anybody in my family but i hope they all will live for a long time.
 

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Some of my relatives are fighting cancer, but I have yet to lose anyone. Now I know I should treasure the time I spend with them, and take none of them for granted.

I'm sorry for your loss, and I hope you can get through this ok.
 

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I was aware of your father's illness as you complained previously in a thread about the expenses made for cancer medication.
I'm sorry to hear of your loss.

QUOTE said:
So why did this cancer bullshit come right when the happiest years of his life start!?
Because for all intents and purposes, God is a psychopathic Anus.
 

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I'm sorry for your loss, man. I'm old enough to have been through the death thing a few times now, including grandparents and parents. It's a hard road, but you'll get through. You begin to see the bigger picture after a while, out of necessity if nothing else. You are the continuance of your father, you are of him, so you are him, believe me, you couldn't shake him out of you if you tried. I know you'll miss his personality, his individuality, but that's embedded in you too.

@jimmy j: Man, for not knowing what to say, you said a mouthful, beautiful.
 

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