That's only going to make it worse.If you want to shitpost make a parody of this thread. This thread is for serious responses only.
but you are getting off to people other than your significant other, and I can see them disliking the thought.
Because a previous thread got moved to the EOF. If a staff member thinks this thread belongs in the GotC they are welcome to move it there.That's only going to make it worse.
If you didn't want shitposts, why not post in the General Off topic forum?
And what if we do...?On a serious note, you wouldn't want know what me and the boyfriend do.
And what if we do...?
How do I find out?It's for me to know and you to find out.
I think that “too controlling” is an attribute formed by a cluster of behaviours, not just one. Does he/she let you spend time with friends of the opposite gender? Does he/she check your phone suspiciously every evening? Does he/she control your recreational activities?Does that mean if you think about someone else as the deed is happening that you are cheating?
Anyway while it would make no practical difference any would be girlfriend that tried to enact such a rule would no longer be my girlfriend on principle alone the instant such a thing was uttered -- it speaks to a far too controlling nature for my taste. Fair enough for a while they are there or during, or if you have an actual problem diagnosed by a proper psychiatrist, but outright is right out, and it would be a principle I encourage others to adopt.
That's what I've been saying.Nothing is illegal if you don't get caught.
I think that “too controlling” is an attribute formed by a cluster of behaviours, not just one. Does he/she let you spend time with friends of the opposite gender? Does he/she check your phone suspiciously every evening? Does he/she control your recreational activities?
Each one of the above points suggests that someone is too controlling but there can also be logical reasons to be suspicious. Is your friend of the opposite gender your ex? Do you have a history of being unfaithful? Are you attending pickup artist seminars and going to nightclubs?
My girlfriend tolerates most of my dirty jokes but draws the line where the level of stupidity reaches that of using a certain household appliance to pleasure yourself. I don’t think that counts as too controlling.
Exactly what is and is not cheating is a matter of perspective. I personally think that watching porn is cheating but the right hand and imagination is not.
Why draw a distinction between imagination and audio/visual stimuli? They are almost the same concept if you really think about it, unless you are imagining your significant other. But then again, you could make a porn with your S/O too.Exactly what is and is not cheating is a matter of perspective. I personally think that watching porn is cheating but the right hand and imagination is not.
Well, the thing with right hand (i use left hand personally) and imagination is that if your significant other surprise you doing itWhy draw a distinction between imagination and audio/visual stimuli? They are almost the same concept if you really think about it, unless you are imagining your significant other. But then again, you could make a porn with your S/O too.
Well that's a good point lol. That situation depends on how they feel about porn though, some may throw a fit, others may want to help you finish if you know what I mean.Well, the thing with right hand (i use left hand personally) and imagination is that if your significant other surprise you doing it
You can easily say "I was thinking about you"
But if it surprises you watching porn, you cant really say that...
Hey if you can zone out and imagine someone else while doing the deed you can surely zone out and do the same with porn.Well, the thing with right hand (i use left hand personally) and imagination is that if your significant other surprise you doing it
You can easily say "I was thinking about you"
But if it surprises you watching porn, you cant really say that...
I agree with what you say about the medical and economic factors.Anyway the imagination thing was more of a joke but I will play. Why did you come to that conclusion? Historically the problems with stepping outside bonds would be about preventing disease and ensuring any children are from the people in question, and have some chance of enough funds to raise them. Assuming you wash your hands then none of that is a problem here.
In such discussions on the morality of pornographical materials some like to contemplate other things like altered expectations or standards, but if you are allowed imagination and you did not feel the need to ponder what goes while you are unattached.