Girlfriend with a male best friend?

[leonmagnus99]

lol ya ask her if shes flirting with him because its not like shes going to tell the truth if she was xD. Your advice is nonsense. Don't steer him wrong. Girls play mind games yes. But he has literally nothing to worry about as long as he mans up, treats her right and doesn't give her a reason to go to another man for her problems. Like i said in one of my previous posts, girls dont want men that are all in there feelings, they want a provider. Its human nature. Provide for them, take care of them, love them and man the fuck up lol

true, my advice was kinda bull.
i think i am still very salty over the why my ex broke up with me, i didnt do this "as long as he mans up, treats her right and doesn't give her a reason to go to another man for her problems" <<<< what you said too often..

*sigh* to the OP. do exactly this, and you'll be fine.. "as long as he mans up, treats her right and doesn't give her a reason to go to another man for her problems"

 

[Clydefrosch]

lol ya ask her if shes flirting with him because its not like shes going to tell the truth if she was xD. Your advice is nonsense. Don't steer him wrong. Girls play mind games yes. But he has literally nothing to worry about as long as he mans up, treats her right and doesn't give her a reason to go to another man for her problems. Like i said in one of my previous posts, girls dont want men that are all in there feelings, they want a provider. Its human nature. Provide for them, take care of them, love them and man the fuck up lol

you're both giving shit advice btw.

 

[RJCline]

you're both giving shit advice btw.

Yet ive been in a relationship for probably a lot longer than you have xD1

 

[cmdwedge]

In one of my previous relationships, I completely ignored the amount of male friends my partner was hung out with, not showing a hint of possessiveness. One day, I find her holding hands with another guy. Sorry, dad, I haven't yet got it completely figured out.

So a different girl didn't do the right thing, and now you're going to punish this new girl for it? How does that make any sense? Look champ, I've been cheated on too, but you just have to recognise that every girl is a different person, and each girl is a new start. You cannot treat this new girl any differently because someone in your past did the wrong thing.

Assume the best of this girl, not the worst. Eventually one will come along that does right by you too.

 

[Seriel]

fuck no, if youre a girl and you have a guy as a best friend, they wanna fuck. Hands down. No exceptions.

Uhm, my best friend irl was a girl for years and years, at no point did I ever want to fuck.
Sorry but your logic is flawed.

 

[DarkFlare69]

fuck no, if youre a girl and you have a guy as a best friend, they wanna fuck. Hands down. No exceptions.

Not always... Why haven't they done it by now then if they've been friends for 10 years?

 

[Boogieboo6]

Ayy just gonna throw this out here: I trusted my girlfriend with another guy because they were strictly friends. Everybody felt it was weird except for me, because I had a lot of trust in my girlfriend. Guess who now has no girlfriend and guess who got that girl?!

 

[gamesquest1]

if your really worried about it then i would say hope for the best, but until stated otherwise he could still be....well....not into girls

that said she may see her and this guy as "like family" but from experience i know sometimes these guys are just waiting for her to ask them out, these situations can be worse as then the guy is aiming to sabotage any relationship she has hoping she will eventually choose him (happened to 2 of my friends), and those setups can be shitty as you say anything and you just look like a needy jerk because to her it looks like big bro looking out for her, but to everyone else its fairly obvious whats going on

best advice for now is play it cool, and just wait to see how things go just dont get too heavy too fast

 

[DarkFlare69]

Ayy just gonna throw this out here: I trusted my girlfriend with another guy because they were strictly friends. Everybody felt it was weird except for me, because I had a lot of trust in my girlfriend. Guess who now has no girlfriend and guess who got that girl?!

Same here, I trusted her, and next thing I know she's flirting with him *cough* @Cody_Mkw

 

[mikefor20]

This thread is ridiculous. You might as well forget about the other guy and just try to make her want to spend time with you. be fun. There is nothing you can do. Anything you can do will backfire. Don't be a child.

If they've been friends for 10 years and you've been with her for six weeks..

Grow up, kid.

Well put. Trying to drive her away from that guy WILL drive you further away and possibly him closer to her.. Grow up.

fuck no, if youre a girl and you have a guy as a best friend, they wanna fuck. Hands down. No exceptions.

1000% TRUE. HE wants to fuck. No doubt. She may not have put it that far out of her head either but.. SHE'S WITH YOU! If she wanted him you know who she would be with? HIM! Just play it cool. Act like it bothers you she will think you're a child and leave. Get mad or "possessive" and she will probably think you are a psycho child and leave! Be a man. Grow up. Quit whining and show her a good time. Make her forget about whats his name. Put a little effort in it and keep your vagina in check and you might just get some play.. And, make sure you SEAL THE DEAL. If you gonna be a whining girl there is a whole bunch of other dicks out there willing to take your place inside her. You might as well step aside. Seal the deal! IF YOU WAIT TOO LONG YOU WILL FALL IN TO THE "FRIEND ZONE". Bad place to be!

 

[cvskid]

Uhm, my best friend irl was a girl for years and years, at no point did I ever want to fuck.
Sorry but your logic is flawed.

I'm guessing she isn't attractive then?

 

[Seriel]

I'm guessing she isn't attractive then?

Uhh what.
I like her as a friend lmao, that is possible you know.

 

[mikefor20]

I'm guessing she isn't attractive then?

lol. He probably was friend zoned so long he gave up! or she's nasty. Maybe a sister like thing but all that takes is a little alcohol and stories change! Not that a man and a woman can't be platonic but somewhere in the guy's brain, he want's it. At least sometimes..

 

[Seriel]

lol. He probably was friend zoned so long he gave up! or she's nasty. Maybe a sister like thing but all that takes is a little alcohol and stories change! Not that a man and a woman can't be platonic but somewhere in the guy's brain, he want's it. At least sometimes..

Uhh what.
I like her as a friend lmao, that is possible you know.

 

[Minox]

...As a woman, hearing that guys don't want women as best friends is baffling. I mean...not everything has to be romance...right?

Granted my best friend is a male, but I'd say I have quite a few really good female friends that I'm not just friends with because I want to get into their pants. They are truly lovely and fun people to hang out with.

 

[Mark McDonut]

depends what kind of person she is.

if she "isn't friends with girls because they're too much drama" but tells you how "confused" she feels then ignores you or gets mad when you ask her to elaborate, she's probably banging him.

However if she's a decent person with integrity and generally loyal, I wouldn't worry about it.

 

[cvskid]

Not always... Why haven't they done it by now then if they've been friends for 10 years?

Maybe they have but just didn't tell him. Maybe it's just me but i seriously doubt nothing at all happened over the course of 10 whole years.

Also just gonna leave this right here.

 

[DarkFlare69]

Maybe they have but just didn't tell him. Maybe it's just me but i seriously doubt nothing at all happened over the course of 10 whole years.

Also just gonna leave this right here.

That'd be an interesting turn of events for OP

 

[RJCline]

Not always... Why haven't they done it by now then if they've been friends for 10 years?

yes always lmao, if your best friend is a girl and you aint try to fuck then shes ugly. Like I said Hands down. NO EXCEPTIONS. if they havent fucked yet and its been 10 years its becuz shes just not into him or hes not trying hard enough. #pussy

 

[Seriel]

yes always lmao, if your best friend is a girl and you aint try to fuck then shes ugly. Like I said Hands down. NO EXCEPTIONS. if they havent fucked yet and its been 10 years its becuz shes just not into him or hes not trying hard enough. #pussy