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Well yes, because it's high school and everyone complains. Plus, considering the people who can take perfect selfies in about 5 sec, I took about 10 minutes going through my list for a good one because I feel as though I can't take good selfies and when I do think I can people say they're shit and that's never good to hear.
 
Kids in high school are generally a bunch of arseholes. They're all as insecure as each other and seem to think it's ok to make others feel bad so they themselves feel better (for a little while). My advice to you would be to try to care less about what other people think and say. Also, stop looking at other people's selfies. I'm not gonna patronise you by saying appearance doesn't matter and it's what's inside that counts because that isn't true, but I genuinely think you're being too hard on yourself and paying too much attention to other people. Focus on yourself. Give yourself honest feedback about what you like about yourself. And experiment with different clothes and hair styles to see how that affects how you feel. For example you could try growing your hair a bit longer and wearing it messy and see how that affects how you feel about your features. But always try to see this as improving on something which is already of value rather than turning it into an obsession to become 'adequate', as that's a slippery slope.

As long as you base your self perception on what other people think or say you will never feel good enough. Be kind to yourself and focus on the things you like about yourself. Make a list or a book about those things to celebrate your positives and your achievements to prove to yourself that you are a successful and worthwhile person. And if anyone says otherwise, just respond "so's your mum" and laugh in their face :p
 
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Kids in high school are generally a bunch of arseholes. They're all as insecure as each other and seem to think it's ok to make others feel bad so they themselves feel better (for a little while). My advice to you would be to try to care less about what other people think and say. Also, stop looking at other people's selfies. I'm not gonna patronise you by saying appearance doesn't matter and it's what's inside that counts because that isn't true, but I genuinely think you're being too hard on yourself and paying too much attention to other people. Focus on yourself. Give yourself honest feedback about what you like about yourself. And experiment with different clothes and hair styles to see how that affects how you feel. For example you could try growing your hair a bit longer and wearing it messy and see how that affects how you feel about your features. But always try to see this as improving on something which is already of value rather than turning it into an obsession to become 'adequate', as that's a slippery slope.

As long as you base your self perception on what other people think or say you will never feel good enough. Be kind to yourself and focus on the things you like about yourself. Make a list or a book about those things to celebrate your positives and your achievements to prove to yourself that you are a successful and worthwhile person. And if anyone says otherwise, just respond "so's your mum" and laugh in their face :P
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This is what I was going to get at for him, but you accomplished it tenfold. Thumbs up for you, sir.
 
PokeAcer said:
Well yes, because it's high school and everyone complains. Plus, considering the people who can take perfect selfies in about 5 sec, I took about 10 minutes going through my list for a good one because I feel as though I can't take good selfies and when I do think I can people say they're shit and that's never good to hear.
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I take about 30 selfies in 30 minutes before uploading here. Don't feel bad about it :)
 
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