Virginity..

[Taza]

And eventually, that is what leads to gigantic disappointments.

Love isn't perfect; love doesn't move mountains; love doesn't last forever.

I'm not a virgin, and I'm quite indifferent about it. It doesn't define me, and if someone sees me as impure because of it they have a snowball's chance in hell to get in my bed anyway.

 

[Toni Plutonij]

Well, you know, many people think very different ways!

Actually, people that think like that (that virginity is of utter importance, and it has to be saved for someone you love) are in minority, looking from this thread..

I respect people with such philosophy! as well as people with philosophy that virginity isn't something sacred, and that you should have sex as much as you can!!

I won't be looking at person differently, although, I would have a problem if my friend is that kind of person that takes advantage of other just to have sex, ie. lies, doing all kinds of stuff just so s/he could have a sex, and then abandons that person!

 

[Maktub]

Sometimes it refers to the fact that the guy will be afraid the woman will be far more experienced - then, I guess it's OK. But most of te time I'm afraid it's just some prejudice that makes people see girls who have had sex before as "stained". That may have had some sort of justification years and years ago when having sex necessarily implied full physical contact (no condom), but nowadays it's completely irrational and an example of male chauvinism. One of the most disgusting ones, from my point of view. Saddest thing is even girls contribute to that thing.
no one likes throwing a hotdog down a hallway

lol, that's so untrue, but sounded funny

QUOTE(Foie @ Jan 15 2009, 03:49 AM)

I'm a virgin and proud of it. Virginity is the last part of you that you can give to a loved one, so it's best to give it to the one you plan will be with the rest of your life. That's what I think makes marriage so special, and helps make it last. I plan to be married my entire life, so I'll wait for the perfect girl to come along. By staying a virgin, I am not just respecting myself, but her as well.

Well, never say "never"!

@Taza: You can't just tell people those kinds of things. Those are things that one learns thanks to experience. Sometimes, we refuse to "learn" them, even... It's pointless to try and convince everyone in this thread that you know something they don't. It's pretty much like parents telling their kids what to do about certain subjects. There's no point in explaining practical things, if you know what I mean

 

[Taza]

@Taza: You can't just tell people those kinds of things. Those are things that one learns thanks to experience. Sometimes, we refuse to "learn" them, even... It's pointless to try and convince everyone in this thread that you know something they don't. It's pretty much like parents telling their kids what to do about certain subjects. There's no point in explaining practical things, if you know what I mean

Laughing at them and calling them naive is a reward of it's own though.