My dad spends so much money, and right now I'm thinking it's becoming a problem. Don't get me wrong, I'm not jealous or anything (actually I'm pretty content with what I have right now). Anyways, my dad has been going on a ton of trips lately (he's going to China tomorrow) while the rest of my family hasn't gone anywhere since spring 07. He's gone on at least 4 trips since August, and if I ask what he's doing at those places, he tries to stop me from talking about it and changes the subject He bought that $350 or so blackberry, then lost it (he didn't have insurance), so he then bought a f***ing $400 iPhone. Every 2 or 3 days, he gets a package in the mail, and he bought tons of new clothes and shoes as well. Meanwhile, my mom has 1 or 2 pairs of shoes, she's wearing the same clothes that she wore 2 or 3 years ago, her phone is my uncle's old one, and she's the one who does most of the housework and stuff like that. It seems really unfair How should I deal with this?