With the breakout board, can you get it cut for a o3DS XL? or does it fit in the case as is?
I would just go with what hundshamer said. It probably has to be cut a bit to fit in the wrist strap slot. It'd still be tons easier than soldering to the pins. Ive only used these micro USB ports with no board so I dont have experience with micro jst or mUSB with bb, but anything with points to solder to like the system board will be easier than those pins, which seem to only be a few mm apart, if that.
Ed: also micro jst appears to have larger and farther apart pins, which would also make it easier than mUSB with no breakout board.
Ed2: also, images just because. it looks like DAT0 might be bridged with the ID pin, but does that really matter, since there's nothing connected to the ID on the cable? I know it'd just take a sec to fix but I'm worried I'll accidentally desolder one or more pins again if I screw with it.
3: Thought about it some. Remember reading that some cables bridge ID and GND. So dat would possibly be grounded if it were actually bridged. But I took a better(ish) picture...
It's hard to get an angle where I can show you nothing is bridged, but I'm certain nothing is. there's a very slim visible space between ID and DAT0. and another between... CMD and CLK.
If I screwed up anywhere I'm certain it'd be on the sd adapter, but due to only buying one, I'll wait til I get the new reader (I ordered the Anker with support for more card types) to open that can of worms.
(I'm also waiting to hot-glue until I can be sure I've got everything right.)