I had 2 dates before I kissed my girlfriend, the first time I asked her to do something was the day after prom.
(Prom in Holland is way different then prom in America)
We had danced that night when I asked her to and we stayed late just goofing around.
I asked her the next day to come with me to the City Centre, where all the giftshops are and stuff, so I could buy presents for my family and stuff.
We talked alot and it was fun, so week alter I ask her to go to the movies with me, saw some chick flick and then walked for ages and talked.
We we're walking home and I smoothly got her into that setting of looovveee, sweet talking and stuff, but reeaallly subtle.
Then I kissed her on the middle of the road! It was great
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So you should start doing something really innocent, like asking if she wants to go to the mall or something.
Say you gotta buy something. That's the time when you can really get a good feel if she's into you, if you start with the movie date,
she's already sure you're into her. I'm not saying that she will, but it could, she could take advantage of that.
If you take her out shopping first, you can get a little more info, you know what I mean?
And just lay down some subtle hints that makes her curious about if you like her or not.
EDIT: And always remember! Being rejected feels better than wondering how it could've been!
Q~