Love advice.

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  1. Linkiboy
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    I've posted this on multiple forums, I'm trying to get everyone's opinion.

    There's this girl, mkay? I like her.

    Anyways, I'm confused to whether she likes me or not. Members please give your opinions.

    So...

    She had asked me to go to her birthday party. Which happened to be an indoor pool party. She was wearing a bikini too(olol). Later during the party, she asked me to dance with her. Which was also beyond awesome.

    We talk on AIM a lot. She never shows any obvious hints that she likes me though. Which is why I'm asking the genius masterminds behind GBATEMP to make a verdict.

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  2. Costello

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    I've asked a girl about this.

    Here's what she has to say.

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    did she dance with others?
     
  3. JPH

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    Great place to come. A place where Nintendo nerds discuss the latest hacks and flash carts.

    Luckily for you, me as being 13, I've had love experience a bunch in my lifetime...sorta.
    I thinks that those are some pretty good indications that she has the hots for you...I'd lay back for a little while and
    see how it goes. If she continues to flirt with ya, I'd go for it (as in ask to go out on a date)...if not. Give it some
    time and flirt.

    But it is hard to determine friends between "lovers"...hope I might of helped... [​IMG]
     
  4. Linkiboy
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    Yeah, but she only asked me, the rest were guys asking her(it was 2 people I think, excluding me). She sent one of my friends to get me out of the bathroom(I was fixing my emo wig, since it was also a Halloween party) if that matters.
     
  5. Shinji

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    Hey Linki, ever heard of Tom Leykis? >.>

    Seriously, it also depends on HOW she's flirting with you. If she's a big flirt with everyone, then you're just another person. But if its JUST you, then you should take initiative. Girls like that...well, some do.
     
  6. .TakaM

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    nah, this forum has a respectable userbase, lots of members married, girlfriends/boyfriends etc
    not just strictly Nintendo nerds [​IMG]

    my advice would be to just do some harmless flirting with her, over aim if thats easier for ya, just too see how she reacts.
    But don't say anything that would get a big negative reaction out of her if she doesn't like you [​IMG]
     
  7. nintendofreak

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    If she shows you some sort of picture, comment like "very cute" followed by a " [​IMG] " seems harmless enough, and i dont think she'll get offended if shes not into you. [​IMG]
     
  8. Costello

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    Yeah I agree.

    Linkiboy: from what you're saying I'd tend to think that the answer is YES.
    Now.. what if you try and get close to her? I mean not for a short moment but in general.. try to be her friend and be with her often.. maybe something will happen by magic? [​IMG] [​IMG]
     
  9. mikeosoft

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    listen man make your own choice. Do you like this girl? do you want her? if you do, don't even worry about rejection, just go for it. Be a man women love that. show her that you are real and that you are you and think like yourself and if she rejects you then you won't feel terrible because you were honestly you and no one else and it will be easier to take.

    trust me i'm 22 i've been through many of these types of relationships from girls that just flirted with me and no one else but when i made the move she'd cry and tell me she wanted to be friends. it happens. i've also had some great relationships with girls because it was an honest relationship with honest feelings from the beginning.
     
  10. Linkiboy
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    No, should I have?

    Oh, and she's not a whore. AFAIK, she only had 1 bf before. She's pretty, and she's smart. I mean really smart. Not a nerd who wears glasses, not socially challanged.

    (Oh yeah, the school I go to is really small, only about 300 kids in the 6th, 7th, and 8th grade combined)
     
  11. muhamad520

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    You got to handle that before some one else does she wont flirt with for ever if you dont do anything she will move on with some other guy
     
  12. skullstatue

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    I'm sixteen and I've had about, let's see, seven girlfriends, but I usually date them for three or four months. Take it slow, there isn't a rush, just keep flirting with her until she asks you out. Or at least, that usually works. If you try to flirt with her too much she might run away. If she's the right chick for you then you should be able to talk with her non-stop, if your conversations don't go anywhere, you should probably find another girl. I dunno, I hope it works out for the best.....
     
  13. Shinji

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    Disregard the Tom Leykis comment. You're young and should not be introduced to that kind of corruption [​IMG]

    So she's only had 1 bf and she is throwing you some subtle signs that she likes you. So the big question is how should you react? The answer? Be yourself. Thats the person she likes, isnt it? Just let her know you like her back in your own, Linki-like way. [​IMG]
     
  14. Linkiboy
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    I wiki'd him. Then I clicked the back button after about 20 seconds.

    Oh, and I've known her for 3 years.
     
  15. Akoji

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    Well , HIT HER BAD !!! (don't worry it a joke)

    Well i just been dumped by a girlfriend which i had a 2 years old relation with her and well ... i would say yes , shes seem interested in her , offer to do something alone and see how she react.

    (if theres a girl in montreal who like metal or video games pm me... lol.
    im trying to meet new girls to change my state of mind(well i feel better since this morning.)
     
  16. mthrnite

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    Ask her to a movie...
    ..what's it gonna hurt?

    If she goes, then the next weekend, ask her to go somewhere else, lunch, dinner, park, ballgame, whatever.
    You keep doing this, not calling it a date, but doing things people do when they date, eventually she'll indicate something.

    ..then you go from there.. escalate.

    Just make sure you don't ignore any obvious signals, and be a gentleman, the world needs more.
     
  17. .TakaM

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    oh, and just for fun
    I predict... 7 pages
     
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    Tom Leykis [​IMG]
     
  19. mthrnite

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    [​IMG] yeah, seven sounds about right. Then he disappears off the face of the earth and we never find out what happened.

    (remember the coffee shop girl?)
     
  20. Akoji

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    Yeah mthrnite has a good point, date her without calling this date , like i said , do things alone with her , and if she's ask you to do a thing alone after , it a good sign, and yeah be a gentleman [​IMG] ladies are gift from the gods aboves.