I care deeply about the subject actually. But I find it aggravating what lengths these two are going to, to continue to both disagree and be right.
I watched every single documentary about North Korea I could find on Netflix a while back, began maybe a year ago. If you see the lives of North Koreans wasting away in prison camps, or risking the lives & the most basic human rights of their entire families, just to escape (if you escaped, your families would be punished severely); then, in contrast, you look at those privileged enough to live in North Korea's version of freedom, living in their city; everyone in that country was living in a very horrifying personality cult. And that is only from the evidence that made it outside of their borders.
Those people who live in the "Civilized" part of North Korea, such as those seen participating in elaborate parades and massive, choreographed gymnastic performances, they
must truly worship the State and its Leader or face horrible consequences. Dissent is not frowned upon, it is punishable by imprisonment. Dissent in every possible conceivable situation.
In one of the documentaries I saw, a young male pianist whose talent placed him in a special situation, was given specially approved lessons so that he could more perfectly entertain the Great Leader. I think the instructor was foreign, but the pianist was exposed to Non-Korean music and compositions for the first time in his life, and it was
traumatizing to him (because it was the most wonderful thing that he could never enjoy in his home country!).
He tried to keep his passion for foreign music (classical music! without any lyrics to question!) a secret. Of course he did not have a piano of his own, so all of his practice was in some way supervised. One day, when he thought he had privacy, he played a known composition by a french composer, and when he was caught, he was informed that it was extremely offensive of him to play non-Korean music, and that he should never do such a thing ever again.. he knew his career was in jeaopardy, and his dream of pursuing his passion was going to torture him for the rest of his life.
He was interviewed in the documentary because he successfully escaped, and after getting asylum, was no longer afraid to speak out against Kim Jong Il's totalitarian personality cult.
Others who were interviewed still had family living in N. Korea and had to be far more discreet about speaking out. For a family to raise someone, who succeeds in escaping *and* speaks out against the state, the whole family is going to suffer even more for it.
It really burns my guts to see an extended philosophical or moral debate where both parties are aware, at least on the surface, that North Korea is multiple flavors of hell, with a lavishly pampered figurehead controlling its powerful military.. yet, no discussion of how absolutely horrid N. Korea's state is for its citizens (aside from providing external links).
Regardless of whether you reach any (mutual) understanding- Kim Jong Il, all comparisons and hypotheses aside, was a man who invoked awe (
in its most literal definition) and obedience from his entire country through excessive discipline, torture, and brain-washing via isolation and propaganda.
His death is good news because he is no longer alive to contribute to and profit from the abuse of his subjects; but realistically speaking, his country will now deify him as they did his father, and perpetuate that little slice of hell the only way they know how. And that, is to replace the figurehead with the succession of his son.
http://www.syracuse....ong_ils_su.html
...People continued lining up Monday in central Kim Il Sung Square, where a massive portrait that usually features Kim Il Sung has been replaced by one of Kim Jong Il, to bow before his smiling image and to lay funereal flowers. Heated buses stood by to give mourners a respite from the cold, and hot tea and water were distributed from beverage kiosks.